Medium Stephen Wakeling Answers Your Questions

pre incarnation plan
Date: 17 February 2013

Hello. It's been a while since I've asked any questions, but I'm having trouble rapping my head around the belief that we choose what happens to us before we reincarnate. I can't for the life of me believe that someone would choose to be gang raped and have a crowbar shoved inside and be practically disembowelled, as I read had recently happened to a young lady in India. And to choose to be the perpetrators of such a horrendous crime is no better. If the intent was to learn about pain or whatever, then that would mean everyone that ever lived would have to at some point experience something just as horrendous, so that we all learned the experience on the same level. I do believe we choose to come back to get certain experiences and healing but nothing horrendous. Could you please give me your thoughts, as I've come across a couple of mediums that swear we experience what we set out to experience before we incarnate, and that includes the above mentioned event.