Medium Stephen Wakeling Answers Your Questions
Date: 13 November 2012
Hello Mary Ann
My family and I have been pet owners for as far back as my memory takes me; even so, I am very sorry to hear of your very sad loss of your cat Molly.
In your words you say you are looking for someone that can reach the other side. The answer is yes, though my words are more for you to initially gain an understanding of the movement between the ‘Two-Worlds’. With either pet, or animal bereavement, the pain a loving owner feels, after their loved companion pet has left this life, is little understood within the thoughts of the general populace as well as psychologists or general medical practitioners’. People who experience pet bereavement are often left alone, at the receiving end of: ‘Don't make such a fuss, I remember a friend of mine who passed on etc!’ Often attitudes from work colleagues, friends, or family, do not help, leaving you with unanswered questions, loneliness and in some cases guilt.
I have taken a little time to search around to see if there is anyone who specialises within the world of animals. Unfortunately, I have to confess that I have not had the good fortune to find any additional supportive words. I am sure there are genuine specialists who work in this field of expertise. But, the web links I looked at all eventually lead to those who seek only the financial rewards upon the ‘money-go-round’ of the Dollar, Pound, or Euro. My conclusion is simple; they were not much help to you, or anyone else!
My conclusion is for me to try to put more words together to help you. I find it a very natural thing for an animal lover to build a ‘special and close relationship’ with their ‘Pet’, particularly when they have been together the amount of years you mentioned in your question. Some people cannot understand this relationship at all. Nonetheless, it is often easier to develop affection and to build up a strong interaction with the animal world. The reason for this is simple; there are no ‘strings attached’, a problem which often clutters people relationships. Pets give unconditional love; all they need is food, shelter, and love!
Like you, I have seen many of my family pets leave this world. Of course it is heartbreaking and painful; yet the bond of love still holds and maintains a connection between them and us. A major problem for many people is grasping the normal interaction between this world and the eternal ‘World of Light’, which in reality is a movement from one-energy field into another. Humanity has developed fears and concerns with the terminology of ‘Life and Death’. Clouded thoughts often clutter people’s heads; either from silly ghost stories, preconceived ideas, or indoctrination from one theological source or another. Take away these illogical thoughts and ideas away, and no problems exist – the interaction and movement of life in its totality is simple, natural and logical. This is why the animal world, including cats, dogs and other pets understand the process of movement from this world to the next is a natural reality for them!
Without doubt your treasured cat Molly will still be with you, supporting and giving what the animal world does best, giving their unrestricted love, a love given in its clearest sense. Perhaps if you realise that all living things have an ‘Aura’, that is an electro-magnetic force field. This force field’s composite aggregate ‘energy’ cannot be killed, or destroyed it simply changes it structure – like water into steam the process of change! All of humankind and our dearly loved pets are subject to change which happens to us all, when we leave this world and enter into the Gates of Eternity.
Our family have an American Red Persian called ‘George’. Sadly, he is now moving towards the end of his physical life at the good age of 15, he is now showing the signs of age; weight loss etc. Of course, we will miss him. He, like your cat, has his own individual characteristics, he is loud, thinks he owns the house and is great friends with our chocolate Labrador, Chester. Nonetheless, the movement of the cycle of physical life moves forward, like the minutes of a clock. Fortunately I have the knowledge and spiritual awareness to know he will not be far away – just next door, a heart-beat away in ‘light’. I have had Chocolate and Yellow Labradors, cats, rabbits; I even bred mice when I was a boy, on reflection (not a difficult pastime) I suppose! But, I have since seen most of them again through my special gift of objective clairvoyance. Yes, they were as real, as real can be! Alive yes - and they await us, they are just a small step away in the ‘Eternal World of Light’.
The bridge between you and Molly is not through the grief and pain you feel now. More it is through the attachment of love you build up together over the years. Grief is an expression of love, and love is the bridge between the ‘Two-Worlds’, the connection that will keep you together. Molly will be well, cared for and awaiting you, when eventually you, like all of us, complete the earthly cycle of physical life and enter into the ‘Realms of Eternity’, together again in peace – and for all time!
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- My pet passed to otherside 2 weeks ago. need answers. Who can help! -- Mary Ann -- 4 November 2012