Medium Stephen Wakeling Answers Your Questions

Hi! I am Spiritual Medium Stephen Wakeling (see 'Who I am'). I welcome your questions about spiritual communications, spiritual unfoldment, mediumship, energy fields and auras, life after death and animal spirits. I will reply on this board, normally within one week (unless I am traveling). You are welcome to visit my videos: Laughter & Tears, Mind Matters, Fraudulent Mediums, Answering questions on this site. Stephen (stephenwakeling.com)

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Am I going crazy? -- K -- 16 May 2013

Hi my name is K and my question for you today is: I have recently found out that I am extremely intuitive and can pick up on people's energy (feeling emotions that aren't mine) but after ...

Re: Am I going crazy? -- Sarah (this site's Admin) -- 18 May 2013

Hi K, this is Sarah the Admin of this site. Stephen read your question and he suggests a visit to a spiritualist church/centre in your location for some spiritual counselling. Perhaps also reading ...

Missing rosary bead cross -- Angie -- 6 May 2013

Hi I am writing as I need some help. I lost a member of my fam 3 yrs ago and when they passed I took a rosary bead cross from them. now for 3 years it has been sitting were I put it. now suddenly it ...

Re: Missing rosary bead cross -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 May 2013

Hello Angie Thank you for your question. You mention taking the ‘Rosary Bead Cross’. One may ascertain that by taking, you were thinking of returning them at some point in time to a family member. If ...

Dream -- Marlyn -- 4 May 2013

A few days ago i dreamt about a male i used to go out with before I married my husband. In the dream he told me how he regretted breaking up with me. I was not even thinking of him at that moment. ...

Re: Dream -- Sarah -- 6 May 2013

Hello Marlyn, I am Sarah, the Admin of this site. Stephen believes that your dream is only a dream, and relates to issues of a personal nature not within the realms of the Spiritual. Therefore, he ...

Consequence of premature death on a soul. Soul consciousness & relatives at time of death -- Viraj -- 6 May 2013

Dear Sir, I will be very grateful if you could let me know as to the following: (1) From your esteemed experience, when does the soul become fully conscious after clinical death? (2) Do the relatives ...

Re: Consequence of premature death on a soul. Soul consciousness & relatives at time of death -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 May 2013

Dear Viraj Thank you for contacting ‘Spiritualist Resources’. I know it takes time to reply; but as with all of us, one is held within the restrictions of time. I can answer some of the questions, ...

My husband recently passed away -- Lisa -- 28 April 2013

my husband passed away suddenly. how long should i wait to go to a spiritualist to see if he will come through to me? we were not speaking at the time of him passing and i desperatey need to know ...

Re: My husband recently passed away -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 May 2013

Dear Lisa I am sorry to hear your sad news about your husband. May I point out that the process of these questions and answers is one of replies which are generic by nature? In simple terms, I do not ...

Strange feelings -- jonpaul -- 1 April 2013

For the past three nights I have had a feeling someone is beside me but I most certainly am alone. Can you give me some information on who is beside me each night? I have had this feeling lots in ...

Re: Strange feelings -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 April 2013

Dear Jonpaul I am sorry for my late reply to your question; the only reason for the delay has been my busy workload particularly at this to time of the year. If you read through the many questions I ...

Could these be physic experiences? -- Cathryn -- 26 April 2013

Hello, Is it possible to know a day or two before someone is about to pass away? I've had many experiences of this, including my parents and two of my cats. Also I have had weird dreams connected ...

Re: Could these be physic experiences? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 May 2013

Dear Cathryn Sorry for my late reply to your question but the reason is two-fold, one my busy workload, secondly the difficulty we all have in this world, which is time. The question you ask is ...

MY SON -- SANDRA -- 1 April 2013

hi i lost my son LEE in 1999 he comitted suiside in his car in the past 3years ive been hearin sounds like can of aerosol i believe hes talking to me i like to talk to him but i dont understand him ...

Re: MY SON -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 April 2013

Hello Sandra The tragic loss of anyone, particular a loved-one, through suicide is heart wrenching and devastating. For any person, to be at such an unhappy period in their life is a terribly sad ...

Arthur Heys, the spirit of the house (a former RAF base) -- Claire -- 18 March 2013

Please could you help me as I am becoming increasingly concerned. A few years back I lived in a property which was used in the second world war raf base. To cut a long story short since then I have ...

Re: Arthur Heys, the spirit of the house (a former RAF base) -- Sarah (Admin of this site) -- 25 March 2013

Hello Claire, I feel that your question is a bit outside of the topics that Stephen normally covers as a spiritual medium. For this reason, may I suggest visiting a local Spiritualist Center/Church ...

My nan -- Jo -- 18 March 2013

I would like to know if my nan is at peace.

Re: My nan -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2013

Hello Jo, I looked at your question and feel it is very similar to one that I answered just below (see "Death" by Laura - link at the bottom of this post). For this reason, I do not feel that I could ...

Death -- laura -- 16 March 2013

My mum and dad died suddenly within 2 years of each other they were christians and believed they would go to heaven, i think about them everyday and wonder if they are together?

Re: death -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2013

Dear Laura First of all, may I say how sorry I am to hear of your sad news about your parents? Also I am sorry for the late reply, but sometimes my other work commitments and travel take me away from ...

Managing medium abilities -- KellyP -- 10 March 2013

Hello, A friend of mine is going through an extremely tough time. He is dealing with new feelings, sights, dreams. His capabilities are endless but he is afraid to speak to someone other than myself ...

Re: Managing medium abilities -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2013

Hello Kelly It is heartening to hear of someone who is concerned about someone else. However, it does worry me when I read the content of your question, and find complete confusion about the natural ...

My spirit guides -- Stephen -- 10 March 2013

I have been trying to sense my spirit guides to get any of their names but with no success. I meditate regularly but can't really feel anything from them. Any suggestions? Is this something you ...

Re: My spirit guides -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2013

Hello Stephen This is an interesting question, one that draws up many thoughts and ideas to be considered within any reply. First of all, one should look at whether you are a practicing medium or ...

Lost my beloved dog - KIM -- Guadalupe -- 9 March 2013

Thank you for the opportunity to write to you Mr. Wakeling. Last February 21st, I lost my beloved Yorki dog pet named KIM in an accident. She was 4 years old and my mother opened the main door of the ...

Re: Lost my beloved dog - KIM -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 March 2013

Dear Lupita Thank you for your very poignant question. First of all may I say how sorry I am to hear of the sad news about the accident involving your pet dog Kim? I have documented quite a lot of ...

pictures im seeing -- don -- 2 March 2013

i see visions it looks just like a tv screen i see them in they are flashing by so fast i cannot see what they are, can you tell me how to slow them down?

Re: pictures im seeing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 10 March 2013

Hi Don An interesting question; if you look through many of my previous answers within the pages of Spiritualist Resources, you will understand a little more about the natural interaction of our ...

Mediumship or energy healing? -- Nicole -- 18 February 2013

Dear Stephen Wakeling I would like to ask you some question about mediumship and healing because I am not sure in which direction I should go. I can feel that I would like to help other people, I ...

Re: Mediumship or energy healing? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 March 2013

Dear Nicole Well I must confess, I had to read, and read again your question. To be honest, I would like to be objective; except there is so much confusion in your words, it is almost impossible to ...

pre incarnation plan -- Simone -- 17 February 2013

Hello. It's been a while since I've asked any questions, but I'm having trouble rapping my head around the belief that we choose what happens to us before we reincarnate. I can't for ...

Re: pre incarnation plan -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 March 2013

Dear Simone It has taken sometime to reply. The reason for the delay is twofold: first I wanted time to contemplate more about your question, and secondly I’m in a very busy period of work thus ...

Re: pre incarnation plan -- Simone -- 20 March 2013

Thank you Stephen for your insightful reply. I agree with your position and it felt good to have someone else express it so well. Bless you for taking time to help those of us who are seeking answers ...

My "Kiki" -- Iris -- 7 February 2013

Hello Stephen, I'm sure you get thousands of emails and can only respond to so many. I hope mine stands out today. I lost my companion, my soulmate, my right arm, Kiki, my Shih-tzu of 11 years ...

Re: My "Kiki" -- Stephen Wakeling -- 12 February 2013

Dear Iris I answer many questions about pets, sadly there is only so much I can say without fear on contradicting myself. However my family and I have been pet owners for as far back as my memory ...

Difference between Psychic and Spiritual Messages -- Allan -- 10 February 2013

Hi Stephen, I have sat in a development circle at my local church and attend services on a very regular basis. A visiting medium was working and part way through, he apologised for working ...

Re: Difference between Psychic and Spiritual Messages -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 February 2013

Hello Allan I am sorry it has taken so long to get back to. Regrettably I have two problems, one is I take time and consideration before I reply; the other is simply time restraints and my very busy ...

My partner shot himself -- Ilze -- 6 February 2013

I want to know why my partner shot himself, and is he at peace now?

Re: My partner shot himself -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 February 2013

Hello Ilze I have taken time and thought in answering your poignant question. The exact reason or reasons I do not know; it would be impossible for me to receive information to clarify why someone ...

Mediumship and Christian upbringing -- Debbie -- 9 February 2013

Stephen, I am in need of guidance. For the past decade, I have had incidents where I have either had someone who has died give me a message to give someone or I would know things about an individual ...

Re: Mediumship and Christian upbringing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 February 2013

Hello Debbie Thanks you for an interesting question on your religious upbringing, a topic which resonates with many people I have spoken to over the years. I find your first sentence interesting - ...

Animal spirits -- Todd -- 30 January 2013

It seems over the last 4 or 5 weeks I have been adopted by a large red tailed hawk. It shows up both around my house and when I am at work driving my truck. Several times throughout my day I will see ...

Re: Animal spirits -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 February 2013

Dear Todd Thank you for your question; unfortunately I am a little late in my reply, owing to my usual busy schedule at this time of year. Well, an interesting, and rather different, kind of enquiry, ...

Reincarnation & Previous Lifes -- Mark -- 30 January 2013

Hello Stephen, My question is this: I hear a great deal about reincarnation and being 'born again' to live a particular life to learn and grow from the life lessons and experiences that they ...

Re: Reincarnation & Previous Lifes -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 February 2013

Dear Mark Well this is a most interesting question to ask. However before I start to answer, I would like to make a few important points. First of all, I would like to point out, this is a subject ...

Dreams of spirit -- Carol -- 23 January 2013

Hello Stephen My daughter has been having recent dreams of seeing her grandfather and uncle sat at a table with her. she wakes with the sound of her son shouting her but then when she goes to him he ...

Re: Dreams of spirit -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 January 2013

Dear Carole The process of dreams is an area of interest for believers and non-believers in spiritual matters. Indeed, this is a subject which goes back through the many pages of history, chronicled ...

My 8 year old -- KayKay -- 20 January 2013

Hi! My 8 year old one night would not want to sleep and insisted on going outside to see the sky. My mom took her out and says that my daughter was pointing to things my mon could not see... This was ...

Re: My 8 year old -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 January 2013

Hello Kay, Thank you for the question. After much thought and reflection I believe the situation you describe points to spiritual awareness within the comprehension of a young child. There is nothing ...

growling -- geraldine -- 31 December 2012

I went to bed last night and was awoken by a weight on the bed , but what woke me annitially was a growling sound right by by ear.What does this mean as its really freaked me out.

Re: growling -- Stephen Wakeling -- 6 January 2013

Dear Geraldine It is rather unusual for me to reply with an answer consisting of so few words. The reason for this is quite simple because my thought goes back to an example my spiritual teacher gave ...

sage smudging -- Kerri -- 27 December 2012

Today we smudged the house with sage to get rid of spirits in our house. The sage had just been lit and my sister started the prayer, my daughters nose immedietly started pouring blood. Is that just ...

Re: sage smudging -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 January 2013

Hi Kerri I have looked at this question, though to be a little blunt I find it strange you are asking me a question about what I would apportion to the concept of paranormal activity. Obviously, I am ...

hoy vi un hombre de capucha blanca -- Tania -- 15 December 2012

hola, hoy jugaba con mi hermano karaoke y vi a mi costado un hombre formido de capucha blanca, como una especie de monje. Grite fuerte y lleve mis manos hacia las cienes, la imagen no se asustó solo ...

Re: hoy vi un hombre de capucha blanca -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 December 2012

Question Translated Through Google (Language: Spanish to English) Hello, Today I played with my brother’s karaoke and saw by my side a man in a white hood, as a kind of monk. I shouted out loud and ...

Apology for missing characters -- Spiritualist Resources -- 23 December 2012

Dear Tania We apologize for the fact that our software could not reproduce some of the characters in your question. Stephen added a Google English translation of your question at the top of his ...

Little poems for babies who leave us -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 December 2012

The Child and the Stars Above Perhaps they are not stars, But rather openings in Heaven, Where the love of our young-ones, shines down, Just to let us know they are happy Inuit Legend ___ Silent ...

Blue Lights -- Sarah Jane -- 10 December 2012

Hello Stephen I was with a Reiki Practitioner and semi-spiritualist last night and as we were talking no spiritual contact being initiated. She told me there was a blue light which and had been ...

Re: Blue Lights -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 December 2012

Hello Sarah Jane Thanks for your question. Sorry for my late reply, but this time of the year is hectic for me with spiritual meetings, weddings and sadly funerals. Anyway, I have had a long hard ...

My nanna -- Matt -- 10 December 2012

Hi stephen, my name is matt and I am 22, my nan passed away on 27july 2012, I really want to know she is ok and if she is mad at me for not staying with her that night when I was ment too, I never ...

Re: My nanna -- Stephen Wakeling -- 15 December 2012

Hello Matt First of all may I say how sorry I am to hear your sad news, it is always heart rendering, painful and difficult when someone you love moves away from this world. Being a grandfather, one ...

My grandfather John -- Bobbi -- 9 December 2012

Hi I'm wondering if my Grandpa John who passed away 6 years ago is ok? I feel bad I couldn't help him and have hard time forgiving myself for not doing more. He had to suffer so much and ...

Re: My grandfather John -- Stephen Wakeling -- 15 December 2012

Hello Bobbi, Your question resonates with numerous enquiries I have answered for Spiritualist Resources, and many of these issues you raise fundamentally relate to the natural process of grief. ...

Unanswered questions -- leslie -- 28 November 2012

Hi, I am trying to find answers for my friends who lost their dad 2 years ago. No investigation was done and the authorities are pretty much not helping. What can I do or who can I go to to help find ...

Re: Unanswered questions -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 December 2012

Hello Leslie I must confess this is one of those very difficult questions I occasionally receive. May I explain more? I draw your attention to the reference “no investigation was done and the ...

Spirit in my bedroom -- Marlyn -- 24 November 2012

Hi Stephen I would appreciate if you could clarify something that has been puzzling me. A few years ago, I awoke during the night, to see a lady in my bedroom. She vanished within 10 seconds. I have ...

Re: Spirit in my bedroom -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 December 2012

Hello Marlyn Thanks for the question, to which I will give you a totally honest answer. My reply is based upon my own comprehension, understanding and experience, inclusive of the limited information ...

Link difficult during first part of demonstration but easy during second part: Reason? -- DG -- 24 November 2012

Hi Stephen I am a spiritualist medium of 16 years experience and just have started to demonstrate my gift, i have noticed that during the early part of the demonstrations i cant get the energy to ...

Re: Link difficult during first part of demonstration but easy during second part: Reason? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 November 2012

Dear Dermot Thank you for allowing your question to be redirected from my own website through to Spiritualist Resources. Before I answer your enquiry may I refer to a couple of points? First of all, ...

Spirits and our secrets -- C -- 21 November 2012

Hello Mr. Wakeling, I believe that our past loved ones are always with us and know about everything that happens in our lives. But my question is, will loved ones who have passed on reveal our ...

Re: Spirits and our secrets -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 November 2012

Hello This is an interesting question; first impression suggests a simple answer, though simplicity within the spiritual context is becoming rather more uncommon these days. Therefore, I believe we ...

How can I find out if I am able to help people as a medium? -- Barbara -- 17 November 2012

Dear Mr. Wakeling, I would really appreciate, if you could tell me, how I can find out if I am able to help people as a medium. Sometimes I hear people talking to me telling me what to do, but I´m ...

Re: How can I find out if I am able to help people as a medium? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 November 2012

Dear Barbara Thank you for your interesting question. My first impression is that your words resonate with a vital ingredient for anyone who has aspirations for mediumship. The element I speak about ...

My pet passed to otherside 2 weeks ago. need answers. Who can help! -- Mary Ann -- 4 November 2012

I am just looking to communicate with my Beautiful cat Molly. We have been together for 18 years, so close and it seemed that the end came so fast, hard to take it all in. I am looking for someone ...

Re: My pet passed to otherside 2 weeks ago. need answers. Who can help! -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 November 2012

Hello Mary Ann My family and I have been pet owners for as far back as my memory takes me; even so, I am very sorry to hear of your very sad loss of your cat Molly. In your words you say you are ...

Re: My pet passed to otherside 2 weeks ago. need answers. Who can help! -- Mary Ann -- 13 November 2012

Dear Stephen, I want to Thank You Very Much for taking the time to express such Kind words at this time in my life. Yes it's very hard to go on without her right now. She was such a Wonderful ...

My dog -- Jennifer -- 1 November 2012

Hi I am sending this to you in search of answers and healing after I had to make the nightmare decision to put my beautiful dog down due to old age and pain. It has been a month since his passing and ...

Re: My dog -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 November 2012

Dear Jennifer As a pet owner for many years I am very sorry to hear of your very sad loss of your dog Buddy. Time and again, the love one holds for a pet can be greater than for a person. People who ...

Intuition -- Sue -- 25 October 2012

Hello! I know I am very intuitive. How can i inhance or bring out my intuitive side to be able to read people? My desire is to be able to do this. I would just like to connect with a place/someone ...

Re: Intuition -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 November 2012

Dear Sue Thank you for your question about your intuitive capabilities and potential. On looking at the few words within your question I note with interest your belief in your intuitive ability. In ...

Spirit/images in the house -- Nicole -- 24 October 2012

Hello stephen, I just curious about something, I have been living in my house for over 2 years--I do believe this house is about or close to 80 years old. When we first moved in our dog would just ...

Re: Spirit/images in the house -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 November 2012

Hello Nicole I find interest in your wording, very interesting when you say you are not a firm believer in this kind of stuff. If you are intimating about interest in paranormal activity, then I am ...

Please, I need a orientation... -- Dante -- 22 October 2012

PREZADO SR. STEPHEN WAKELING, My name is Dante. I am from Brazil. São Paulo City. I am engineer, 57 years old. I and my mother always had strong feelings for each other. She was teacher for children. ...

Re: Please, I need a orientation... -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 October 2012

Dear Dante I am sorry that it has taken me a while to reply to you. The reason for this is simple; with all of my responses I take considerable time and thought to ensure my reply is personal, ...

Re: Please, I need a orientation... -- Dante -- 7 November 2012

Mr Stephen, First of all, thank you very much for the light you gave me. Mr Stephen, you do not have to ask for excuses for being late, since you are very kind in spending your time helping people. ...

The call of mediumship and healing -- Sheree -- 22 October 2012

Hello Stephen, I am 53 years old now and have had a very varied life but always felt the call of mediumship and healing but although I have been to some circles I am still at a loss to know where to ...

Re: The call of mediumship and healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 October 2012

Dear Sheree Thank you for your question and may I thank you for your redirection to Spiritualist Resources.com. I read with interest your comment about having a very varied life; you appear to have ...

Miscarried baby? -- Angela -- 18 October 2012

I miscarried a baby at 10-1/2 weeks. I'm still grieving for my baby. Can yo bu give me insight on what happens to the baby's soul? Will the miscarried baby come bac to me as another

Re: Miscarried baby? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 October 2012

Dear Angela There are certain questions I receive that contain far deeper sadness, holding greater poignancy particularly when there is the loss of a child or infant. With children and babies the ...

Doctors in spirit? -- Low -- 9 October 2012

Are there such spirits as doctors in spirit and how can we ask them to help heal us of illness?

Re: Doctors in spirit? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 October 2012

Hello This is a most interesting question, one that at first appears to be a simple yes or no, nevertheless there is far more depth to this enquiry that initially one may think. Subsequently, I will ...

Communicate with my dead husband -- Reena -- 2 October 2012

Hi Stephen, im Reena frm Malaysia. My husband passed away 8 months ago due to coronary atheroma. Im still grieving on his loss. Is there any way to communicate with him? I need to talk to him. Me and ...

Re: Communicate with my dead husband -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 October 2012

Dear Reena Sorry for the slight delay in replying to you I have been in another part of the country, away from any internet connection. I am very sad to hear of the tragic loss of your husband. The ...

Spirits -- Lisa -- 30 September 2012

Hi. my husband passed due to an accident this year. is his spirit with me and our children. is he with us ? also is their another spirit around. I have had experiences. thanks.

Re: Spirits -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 October 2012

Dear Lisa When I receive questions that mention a tragic loss it is almost impossible to find words to take away the sadness you must feel. With anticipation the few words contained in my reply may ...

Stephen's youtube video called "Laughter & Tears" -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 September 2012

Stephen's youtube video called "Mind Matters" -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 September 2012

Stephen's youtube video called "Fraudulent Mediums" -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 September 2012

Illness after mediumship workshop -- Simone -- 21 September 2012

Hello, I've been attending a weekly mediumship workshop for 3 weeks now. I'm totally invigorated when I leave. However within about 6 hours of the first one I developed a headache that lasted ...

Re: Illness after mediumship workshop -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 September 2012

Dear Simone May I thank you for a most interesting question, one that contains a great deal of depth? However I am surprised you haven’t asked the leader or medium who undertakes the mediumship ...

Re: Illness after mediumship workshop -- Simone -- 1 October 2012

Thank you so much for your reply. I suppose workshop was the wrong word to use. It is a development kind of setting and quite relaxed. Although the leader (for lack of a better description) suggested ...

Re: Illness after mediumship workshop -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 October 2012

Dear Simone Many thanks for your kind reply, it not very often that I receive feedback from my answers. Having read your words I am still of the opinion that you might be better if your found another ...

Stephen's youtube video about answering questions on this site -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 September 2012

Click on the video or on the youtube link below.

my dad -- simon -- 13 September 2012

hi stephen it has been several years since the passing of my dad and now, more than ever i need to know if i can have some answers and/or advice from him is it possible ? will it work for me? thankyou

Re: my dad -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 September 2012

Hello Simon I am sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Like you I was in a similar situation to you after the passing of my own father, though for me it was over forty years ago. Nonetheless, ...

Re: my dad -- simon -- 13 November 2012

Stephen, firstly i would like to thank you for your words. writing to you was the first step i have taken in what i hope is a short journey to find some form of answer to my original question of " ...

Re: my dad -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 November 2012

Hello Simon It took me sometime to find a connection with my reply to you, until I went back through the many answers I write for ‘Spiritualist Resources’. Well it may have taken a while to find your ...

past, present, future? -- pat -- 9 September 2012

I used to experience seeing, hearing, talking to (etc) other children and didn't realise no-one else could. It was put down to "imaginary friends." In my early teens, we had a neighbour with a ...

Re: past, present, future? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 September 2012

Dear Pat Many thanks for your initial question, which is one that many people talk about during general conversations and spiritual enquiries. Childhood communication with our friends in light ...

Doubt about modern mediums' strategy -- Sophie -- 30 August 2012

Dear Mr Wakeling, I have recently read the inspiring account by Arthur Findlay of the mediumship of John Sloane. I went to see my first demonstration by a medium in my local Spiritualist Church, ...

Re: Doubt about modern mediums' strategy -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 September 2012

Dear Sophie Thank you for your enquiry, which rather than a singular question presents an assortment of doubts and statements on the subject of the authenticity of mediumship, as it is portrayed in ...

Re: Doubt about modern mediums' strategy -- Sophie -- 8 September 2012

Dear Stephen, Thank you for your painstaking, very gratifying reply. Let me first respond to this remark of yours: 'I am a little suspicious with this type of questions/statements, especially ...

My dad ... -- Steve de V -- 26 August 2012

Hi Stephen, i am from Belgium I hope someone to find in the UK for helping me connect with my dad... I have heard there are good mediums in the UK. So i ask some things and if i feeling good by it ...

Re: My dad ... -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 September 2012

Dear Steve Many thanks for your question; but first of all, may I say how sorry I am to hear about your father passing over. I believe that you are now upon a search for questions that mankind has ...

energy, meaning and purpose in life -- Anil -- 30 July 2012

Dear stephen, What should i do different to feel more energetic, healthy, alert, mindful and lead life more purposefully with more fulfillment. What the higher intelligence expects from me? Regards. ...

Re: energy, meaning and purpose in life -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 August 2012

Dear Anil Thank you for your question. I am sorry for the delay in replying; this is wholly because I have been away in Scotland undertaking spiritual work. The small amount of information you ...

spirit communication -- richard -- 22 July 2012

how does one communicate with spirits

Re: spirit communication -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 July 2012

Dear Richard Thank you for your question. It may seem that with so few words the answer would also be succinct. If only this were the case, then a mass of literature spanning the pages of history ...

I have been cursed or something strange -- In America -- 4 July 2012

Hi I have been looking for someone to help me, I feel as though I have been cursed or something strange, i have been suffering from insomnia feeling of being toughed, sudden craings for cigarettes, ...

Re: I have been cursed or something strange -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 July 2012

Hello It may sound surprising, but I get a lot of questions similar to the one you sent to me. Nonetheless, each enquiry resonates with similarities, though each needs a great deal of thought and ...

New things -- Leidis -- 25 June 2012

Hello mr.wakeling my family are people that believe and actually practice mediumship. I grew up with and learned alot of things . I consider myself a medium because ofthe reason that i could feel ...

Re: New things -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 June 2012

Dear Lei Thank you for your question. I get a fair amount of questions within a similar vein to your sentiments, generally from people who profess to be mediums. Even so I find this type of question ...

Drawings of people in Spirit -- Stephanie -- 13 June 2012

Dear Stephen. I have been on a very spiritual journey that started with illness. I saw things heard things, mentioned things I could not know about others passed loved ones and then in march this ...

Re: Drawings of people in Spirit -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 June 2012

Dear Stephanie Thank you for the interesting account of your gift, and how it has started to unfold and develop since your illness. My initial thought is that personally I am not gifted for ...

question -- francisca -- 7 May 2012

Mr Wakeling: I am from Chile, and my english it´s not well, but I want to answer for I´have had some dreams about numbers such as 39,98,78,79. the last month I ´had had reading psalms and I thought ...

Re: question -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 May 2012

Hello Francisca I have looked at your question, and thought about it, therefore not rushing with an answer. Nevertheless, I see no spiritual significance in the numbers at all. Perhaps it is just a ...

help me to understand -- Donna Phillips -- 1 May 2012

Can u tell me why my dad killed himself about 10 months ago? I'm really confused why!!!!

Re: help me to understand -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 May 2012

Dear Donna I have taken time and thought in answering your poignant question. The reason for this is because of the many aspects that interact with the association of these sad circumstances you ...

Spirit -- Tara -- 29 April 2012

Hello I think I may have a spirit in my home I have had a few things happen. First we heard a tapping sound in the kitchen we went to see what it was and you could see that there was something ...

Re: Spirit -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 April 2012

Dear Tara The content within your question is a little confusing, so I have pieced together a simple answer. You mention being aware of a spiritual presence, which appears to be making some tapping ...

I foresee the worse -- punkymama -- 24 April 2012

Dear Stephen Wakeling, since early 2011 I have sensed that my husband will die soon. During a surgery, as I was awakening from the anesthesia, I was overwhelmed with the sense of sadness upon seeing ...

Re: I foresee the worse -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 April 2012

Hello Thanks you for your interesting question. I am sorry to hear about your husband’s Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI) which I am sure must be very difficult times for both you and your husband. ...

Understanding. -- Susan. -- 8 April 2012

I think I may have unintentionally hurt an animal I was trying to help and I cannot come to terms with it.

Re: Understanding. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 April 2012

Dear Susan Thank you for your question, to which I have given deep thought over a few days. My thoughts are that the inference from your words show compassion and kindness. These are great attributes ...

Re: Understanding. -- Susan. -- 17 April 2012

Thank you for the giving of your time and for your help which is much appreciated. Susan.

Confuse and over whelm with( I can feel, sense, hear and feel spirits). -- wanda -- 29 March 2012

Hello My Name is Wanda, I have been dealing with alot of issues. And I feel you know what and why they are. I just have to ask you. How many guarding Angels do I have around me if any at all.Do you ...

Re: Confuse and over whelm with( I can feel, sense, hear and feel spirits). -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 April 2012

Dear Wanda Thank you for your letter; sorry for the late reply but I have been away working. I have looked at your question, though to comprehend your specific points, I have had to try to unveil the ...

My very special dog -- Jane -- 16 March 2012

Hi Stephen. My old canine soul mate and best friend died recently. I am desperately empty and sad without him. I really need to know if he will be in the spiritual world and happy. I had him for 14 ...

Re: My very special dog -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 March 2012

Hello Jane Thank you for your question which I understand gives reference to an answer I wrote way back in 2010. I must say how sorry I am to hear of your loss. Like you, it is hard to understand and ...

Re: My very special dog -- Jane. -- 19 March 2012

Stephen. I had to reply to your reply to say thank you so much for your reply and to also let you know that 'My very special dog' was also called Roscoe - you will see that I had not told you ...

people who have died -- Sandy -- 29 February 2012

There was a male from my past, esp the month of Jan. 1970. He played a very instrumental part in my life and died 36 years ago. For the past month I have been consumed with thoughts of him. Sometimes ...

Re: people who have died -- Stephen Wakeling -- 10 March 2012

Dear Sandy I am sorry for the delay in replying, the problem is simple in that I have been away on holiday at a place with no internet connectivity. Anyway thank you for your question. However in the ...

Spirits in the Home -- Jackie -- 4 March 2012

Hi, I have had some strange unexplainable events in my home over a short period of time starting on my birthday, I feel I may need some spiritual help in this matter. Wondered if you could help me in ...

Re: Spirits in the Home -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 March 2012

Hello Jackie Thank you for your question, which I refer to as one from the ‘field of spirit investigation’. However, the subject you mention is not an area where my work takes me. In fact, the ...

Could I be gifted? -- Lina -- 3 March 2012

Hi stephen, im Lina, Im from Colombia South America, and today i decided to go to internet and serch about mediums. I have seeing 3 persons that have this gift, and they all told me about me being ...

Re: Could I be gifted? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 March 2012

Dear Lina The question you raise is one which is often asked by people who have an interest in spiritual or psychic matters. When one first delves into this subject, it is often difficult to ...

Mental illness -- Jade -- 24 February 2012

Spiritually, why do I have mental illness? Surely no-one would choose a life where they are in torment every hour of the day and feel so seperated because they cannot bond with another human being. I ...

Re: Mental illness -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 February 2012

Dear Jade Thank you for your sad and poignant question. My first observation is your reference to mental health. I am conscious of the complexities that befit many people who have forms of mental ...

Purpose -- Eraj -- 13 February 2012

PLEASE, help me understand what my purpose is in life? I need to know my purpose. I've felt lost since 4 years ago and am frustrated and hopeless. I need to know whether I have psychic powers to ...

Re: Purpose -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 February 2012

Hello Eraj In the first instance, may I use the Arabic welcome and say salaam alykum wa rahmat Allah wa baraktu to you. The question you pose is not unusual; there are many people who seek the same, ...

Relationship with friend -- Mukesh -- 12 February 2012

can i make relation with my friend, is it possible?

Re: Relationship with friend -- Stephen Wakeling -- 12 February 2012

Namaste Mukesh Occasionally I get questions with little content; of course they are extremely difficult to answer. With only four words, it is almost impossible to provide a coherent reply. It would ...

Alzeihmers -- Petal -- 9 February 2012

Dear Stephen, Is someone with end stage Alzheimer's still on the earthly plain, the other or both? Kind Regards Petal

Re: Alzeihmers -- Stephen Wakeling -- 12 February 2012

Hello Thank you for the question on Alzheimer’s. First of all may I spend a few moments clarifying Alzheimer's disease (AD), which is known within the medical fraternity as a common form of ...

Re: Alzeihmers -- Petal -- 2 March 2012

Dear Stephen, Once again thank you for your answer. I wondered if perhaps, those with severe alzheihmers soul could wander around. They say 'the eyes are the window of the soul' but when you ...

IVF -- Petal -- 9 February 2012

Dear Stephen They say that 'a baby' chooses their parents and is a gift from God. But, what if a lady is infertile and as a result of IVF conceives? If the baby is still a gift etc. why ...

Re: IVF -- Stephen Wakeling -- 12 February 2012

Hello This is an interesting question, which offers some thought provoking answers. Whereupon one should realise that any answer can only be within the comprehension, or spiritual understanding, of ...

Re: IVF -- Petal -- 2 March 2012

Dear Stephen, Thanks for answering my question. It's evident that you spent much time formulating your response and I appreciate that. Apologies about my tardy response. Initially, I wanted to ...

my dad -- claire -- 31 January 2012

Hi. My dad died very suddenly 14 weeks ago today. no illness,he was as fit as a fiddle but one day without any warning he was gone. A massive heart attack. i worshipped my dad,he was my hero. i miss ...

Re: my dad -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 February 2012

Dear Claire First of all may I say how sorry I am to hear the sad news of your father’s passing? One would imagine with the festive period on the horizon, the distress was even more heart rendering, ...

Developing my subjective clairvoyance -- Stacey -- 29 January 2012

Hi Stephen, I wonder if you can help me... For several years now I have experienced what I always referred to as a "busy mind". Whenever I am alone with time to think, random images would enter my ...

Re: Developing my subjective clairvoyance -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 February 2012

Dear Stacey Thank you for your e-mail and taking the time and patience to redirect your question to ‘Spiritualist Resources’. Just to confirm that owing to time restraints I only answer spiritual ...

Re: Developing my subjective clairvoyance -- Stacey -- 5 February 2012

Hi Stephen, Thank you so much for your response. I have done quite a lot of reading into the subject over the last week. I think a spiritual teacher is the way to go. I am determined to develop my ...

mediums challenge -- A M -- 15 January 2012

Why have my bookings dried up? I had been doing mediumship for some years and i feel if I was no good then I should have been told. Iknow there is protocols as to informing mediums but Ithink this is ...

Re: mediums challenge -- Stephen Wakeling -- 21 January 2012

Hello A, Thank you for your question. I have taken time to ponder upon what from the outset appears a simple response; however I feel there is greater depth and content required on this subject. ...

spirit orbs? -- Sara -- 13 January 2012

I believe I may have had a few experiences with spirit orbs. I know very little about these except I've heard that they are spirits that are getting ready to manifest themselves. My question is, ...

Re: spirit orbs? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 January 2012

Dear Sara This is an interesting question, though there are many schools of thought about this particular subject. However, may I say ‘Orbs’ is not an area where my spiritual work really gets too ...

Re: spirit orbs? -- Sara -- 16 January 2012

Mr. Wakeling, Thank you very much for responding and what a beautiful response. I do truly believe he visited me. Its hard to talk about this with just anyone without them thinking youre nuts but I ...

spirits -- james -- 5 January 2012

Dear Stephen About seven years ago four spirits entered my home; they were a mother, her two children and a dog. The mother and one of the children have gone - that was two years ago, the dog and a ...

Re: spirits -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 January 2012

Hi James The question is confusing so I have pieced together a simple answer. You mention being aware of a group of people who have moved out from this physical world into light. Not an uncommon ...

Groups with Voting Authority in Heaven -- Donna B -- 2 January 2012

Dear Stephen Wakeling, Can you tell me anything about Groups with Voting Authority in Heaven? I have had two experiences in this regard since my Voice (singing) Teacher, Charlene Andres, passed away ...

Re: Groups with Voting Authority in Heaven -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 January 2012

Hello Donna, Voting is within the material and material doesn't count for anything in the 'World of Soul'. I feel from your question that there is confusion between this world and the ...

the spirit world -- angela -- 2 January 2012

hello, since i was a young child, i have had the "ability" to attract spirits in sleep and while awake, spirits of all kinds, good and not so good. sometimes they come to me in my sleep, and ...

Re: the spirit world -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 January 2012

Dear Angela I have looked at your question a few times now, trying to ascertain the underlying question. My conclusion is there seems to be a terrible amount of confusion about the ‘natural spiritual ...

She is gone -- Denise -- 2 January 2012

My nan died recently ,I found it more painful than I could of ever imagined as her husband ( my grandad) sexually abused me and my sister for many years I put a letter in her Cardigan in the chapel ...

Re: She is gone -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 January 2012

Dear Denise In the first instance, may I say how sorry I am to hear of the sad loss of your grandmother? However, I have to confirm my reply to you strictly disassociates with any superstition, or ...

Seminar experience. -- Graham -- 1 January 2012

Hi Im a 36 year old adult. When I was 19 I attended a walk in Seminar at the Spiritualist Centre, Belgrave Square, London. At the time I had no idea what i was attending as I was just visiting london ...

Re: Seminar experience. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 January 2012

Dear Graham Thank you for your interesting question of a situation which happened so many years ago yet still very much within your thoughts. Regarding the situation you mention I am not familiar ...

I recently lost my Mom -- A -- 31 December 2011

Hello, I came across your site while searching Google. I recently lost my Mom. I have been facing so much difficulty accepting it. I want to talk to my mother to know if she is doing ok. I must ...

Re: I recently lost my Mom -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 December 2011

Dear A, Having read your two e-mails I have tried to bring them together to grasp the depth of the very sad loss of your mother. I do like to take time, and give a lot of thought to my replies. Your ...

death of my father -- sandra -- 30 December 2011

I lost my dad on 23rd december 2011 at age of 89 years. We were very close and i have always been there for him. However he was taken to hospital on 8th december 2011 and though i visited as i could, ...

Re: death of my father -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 January 2012

Dear Sandra May I say how sorry I am to hear the sad news of your father’s passing? Whatever time in the year, Christmas or festive times are often more distressing and poignant, which brings the ...

Re: death of my father -- sandra s -- 3 January 2012

Dear Stephen Thank you for the wonderful reply to my letter, which i found very comforting. I will be taking up all your advice and would one day like nothing better, than to meet you in person - ...

Christmas Concert In Heaven -- Donna -- 29 December 2011

Dear Stephen Wakeling, I have had many spiritual experiences, and one of the things that I have become aware of is the Christmas Concert that happens in Heaven each year just before Christmas. The ...

Re: Christmas Concert In Heaven -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 January 2012

Dear Donna Many thanks for your interesting and thought provoking question about a Christmas Concert in the ‘World of Light’. Perhaps I am not the person best suited to answer this question; ...

development -- jessica s -- 22 December 2011

Hi. My name is Jessica. I live in a part of the USA where there aren't too many opportunities for development. Currently, I am developing my spiritual gifts, and I have learned to contact my ...

Re: development -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 December 2011

Hello Jessica Many thanks for your interesting question. I have spoken about the point you raise many times at ‘Spiritualist Churches’ over the last few years – where do you develop in parts of the ...

Further to our conversation -- S -- 4 December 2011

Hi Stephen I don't know if you will remember me, I was very upset about a close friend of my youngest son who took his life at 15 years old? I couldn't make sense of it, why he would want to ...

Re: Further to our conversation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 December 2011

Dear S. Thank you for your sad correspondence. I am sorry for the delay in replying it is that I have been away in Spain, to be precise Tenerife. The situation of why a person seeks to end their ...

About Pet Spirits and Souls -- L -- 4 December 2011

I just read Stephen Wakeling's article on Pet Sprits and Souls. Yesterday, I had to put my beloved 12 year old Yorkie to sleep as she had cancer of the heart, liver and spleen. I've had her ...

Re: About Pet Spirits and Souls -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2011

Hello L Many thanks for your question. As a pet owner for as many years as I can remember, may I say how sorry I am to hear about the physical loss of your Yorkshire Terrier? We can often be closer ...

Help my husband deal with his loss -- Julie -- 28 November 2011

Dear Stephen, My father in law passed away just over a year ago and my husband is finding it extremely difficult to come to terms with as he was very close to his father and doesn't believe that ...

Re: Help my husband deal with his loss -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 December 2011

Dear Julie I am extremely sorry to hear of your sad news and the obvious difficulties you are having at this point in time. My thoughts are for you and your husband. It is not easy for any person who ...

Financial situation -- Thaiba -- 14 November 2011

sir good morning. i am from india. what about my future financial and family situation

Re: Financial situation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 20 November 2011

Namaste Thaiba Thank you for your question. However, in the first instance, may I explain a little about my work as a spiritual medium? Spiritual mediums use a divine gift to interact with people who ...

too emotionally involved -- Sam -- 20 November 2011

Hi there, I don't "work" as a medium but I do get very clear messages for people and I have been told I am good at psychic mediumship . Its not something I actively seek out and mainly because I ...

Re: too emotionally involved -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 November 2011

Dear Sam Thanks for your question, sorry for the late reply but I have been away for a few days, having a little peace from the internet. I have taken sometime looking at your enquiry, which is one ...

Re: too emotionally involved -- Sam Dodd -- 26 November 2011

Ty so much ! Its hard at times to get a fully understanding answer and for the past 10 years I have kind of shunned the limelight and refused to fully take any definate steps because I always felt ...

my father -- elaine -- 16 November 2011

my father passed away last september before his death from colon cancer he wasnt eating i tried to get him to but he wouldnt and he got angry saying i would suffer after his death in which i have ...

Re: my father -- Stephen Wakeling -- 20 November 2011

Dear Elaine When I receive enquiries similar to yours I like to take time, and give depth of thought to my answer. Questions like yours, infer content which is emotional and poignant, necessitating ...

Unsure -- Dave -- 10 November 2011

As a medium, I need to know an important question. Do you have any opinion on the Carbon Tax, do you foresee a future for the Gillard government? I actually really need to know...hope you can help or ...

Re: Unsure -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 November 2011

Dear Dave I am a little perplexed at this question. My initial view was simple to say the least. If you are a medium, why ask me? However, one has to take the view; we all only see a small part of ...

the 3rd child? -- Shannon Smith -- 10 November 2011

lately I've been feeling the presence of a child I have had this happen before I got pregnant with my other 2 daughters. I have been wanting another child for a long time I just want to know if I ...

Re: the 3rd child? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 November 2011

Dear Shannon Thank you for your question asking about a third child. I am sensitive of the conscious of your question, and the situation you mention. However, this particular query is not within the ...

Have I been here before? -- Julia -- 2 November 2011

Hello. I have always had a fascination with the Tudor period in history, even as a child. I can talk for hours as if I'm an expert, though i could never profess to being one. When I visited ...

Re: Have I been here before? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 November 2011

Hello Julia Thank you for your interesting question about life in the Tudor period of English history. There are many people who have similar connections to precise times in history. I come from a ...

Dream or not -- christopher -- 31 October 2011

I dont know if my mind is playing tricks on or if im dreaming or if i did experience anything? Recently ive been having trouble at night. As i woke up i seen a dark figure above me and i could not ...

Re: Dream or not -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 November 2011

Hi Christopher Further to your question about dreaming or reality; you mention not sleeping well at night and a dark figure about you. Often there is confusion over the simplicity of dreams and ...

Contacting spirits through lucid dreaming. -- Tarryn -- 31 October 2011

Hi Stephen Is it possible to contact a deceased loved one through lucid dreaming? And how would you know it was really them, and not just a subconscious projection? The reason I am asking is that I ...

Re: Contacting spirits through lucid dreaming. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 November 2011

Dear Tarryn Thanks you for your interesting question. In the first instance, may I explain something quite simple about dreams? Dreams are a natural occurrence, which allows for the movement of our ...

Re: Contacting spirits through lucid dreaming. -- Tarryn -- 4 November 2011

Stephen, thank you so much for taking such care and time to answer my question. Your answer was wonderful, and much appreciated. Bless you. Tarryn

emotional healing -- Gabriela -- 26 October 2011

I am watching my 30 year old son continue in the same relationship that is destructive, how can I help him find the right emotional enlightment to heal himself. That will solve the problem.

Re: emotional healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 October 2011

Dear Gabriela Having carefully looked at your question, with a limited amount of information, I have taken the presumption you have great concern about your son. If this is the case, you have an ...

Is this how it starts ? -- Marlena -- 24 October 2011

Hello Stephen, I have been having some things happen in the last few years that are really starting to worry me, and maybe you can help me to figure it out a bit. I will try to make this as short as ...

Re: Is this how it starts ? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 October 2011

Hello Marlena My initial thoughts are you need to grasp spiritual understanding, which will allow you to build knowledge and attunement. Please, may I explain? I am sorry to hear of your ...

I am the lost soul on this earth -- Marika -- 23 October 2011

Hello Stephen, I am so blessed I find you to communicate with you. I live in Australia, and I have only one question to you please, help me!!! What should I do , and manage my life in the best way, ...

Re: I am the lost soul on this earth -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 October 2011

Hello Marika Thank you for your correspondence. It would appear from your words your life in not in harmony, and in a state of imbalance. Often I receive similar questions, yet the only thing you ...

new relationship -- jackie -- 12 October 2011

will i find happiness

Re: new relationship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 October 2011

Dear Jackie It is very difficult for anyone to give a definitive answer to a question structured with only three words. One could only assume you are seeking clarification about your personal ...

Spiritual Path -- Deborah -- 16 October 2011

Hi Stephen, In the past year or so I have been learning about my spiritual path, unfortunately I feel stuck and unsure of how to proceed further. Or if I'm even on the right path. Can you see if ...

Re: Spiritual Path -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 October 2011

Hello Deborah My first thoughts are, you have only been aware of your pathway to spiritual attainment for a short period of time. Development of your spiritual faculty has to work in tandem, running ...

Need help -- Carla -- 5 October 2011

I need help I have alot of pain in my body I think someone might have put a curse on me I need help to get my life back. What ever is happing is affecting me relationship with me and my daughter my ...

Re: Need help -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 October 2011

Dear Carla Thank you for your question. I am a little unsure as to your narrative: are you having physical pain, or are you alluding to someone who could have placed a curse upon you? Let’s take the ...

what does my life hold -- margaret -- 4 October 2011

i always feel lost and sad what does my life hold for me will i ever feel happy.

Re: what does my life hold -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 October 2011

Hello Margaret Thank you for your question. It is always saddening to hear of anyone whose life appears to be down and unhappy. Life is a collection of experiences during our physical life; we all ...

My dog died -- Maria -- 3 October 2011

hello im portuguese. and im in some distress has ive lost my beloved dog berlioz a beautiful and sweet golden retriever of sad eyes. im with dificulties in accept his death. nevertheless,he was 13 ...

Re: My dog died -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 October 2011

Hello Maria I am very sorry to hear of your very sad loss. Often the love one keeps and holds for a pet can be greater, because of the natural ease of our interaction with the animal world. Like you, ...

Re: My dog died -- maria ladeira -- 11 October 2011

stefhen may god bless you for your words.im deeply grateful to you .i understand you know so well this pain for your pets and alowd me to say you are a brave man as you have many pets and you keep ...

Re: what does my life hold -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 October 2011

Hello Margaret Thank you for your question. It is always saddening to hear of anyone whose life appears to be down and unhappy. Life is a collection of experiences during our physical life; we all ...

Closure -- Lynne -- 20 September 2011

Dear Stephen, I am 58 and have struggled with this since just after my 14th birthday - 3rd August 1967. You see, my father was killed on the 22nd August 1967 - or so it seemed at the time - ...

Re: Closure -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 September 2011

Dear Lynne Thank you for your correspondence. I have taken sometime to reply, because I needed to reflect deeply upon my answer to you. Many of the questions I receive have a direct connection with ...

Need help -- Patricia -- 13 September 2011

Dear Stephen, I have been widowed almost two years now. My beloved husband Kevin died from an illness he contracted whilst on business in the Far East. Shortly afterwards I moved from Crawley East ...

Re: Need help -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 September 2011

Dear Patricia Many thanks for your poignant, sad, though very interesting letter. I have so many parallels with the content, the questions you ask make it even more worthy of note for me to respond ...

My sister -- Clare -- 10 September 2011

Dear Stephen I hope you can help me but i don't know if you can. it would be wonderful if you could explain what is happening to me as I never 'get' for myself. Could my intuition be ...

Re: My sister -- Stephen Wakeling -- 15 September 2011

Dear Clare Many thanks for your question in which you infer you never get anything for yourself. Not an uncommon enquiry, though the answer is rather simple: The answer is within you comment “share ...

spirit world -- natasha -- 1 September 2011

hi could you tell m if my baby nephew is alright he passed 29 may 2010 and who he is with

Re: spirit world -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 September 2011

Dear Natasha Thank you for your e-mail. However before I give my explanation, may I draw your attention to an important point? With all questions, I take the standpoint that my answers are generic ...

my beloved bro -- Rao -- 21 August 2011

Dear Sir, I’m Rao from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I just have gone through this article. I lost my 37 yrs brother a year ago without knowing what a reason. He went to bed at 2 am and when I woke him up ...

Re: my beloved bro -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 August 2011

Dear Rao First of all may I say how sorry I am to hear about the passing of your brother? The sadness of loss, grief and sorrow is felt within our hearts for our loved ones, until we are reunited in ...

My mother in law -- Mandy -- 17 August 2011

Dear Stephen, My name is Mandy and I am a medium. My other in law is 85 years old and has been ill on and off all of this year. She is particularly not well at present and I am doing my best to care ...

Re: My mother in law -- Stephen Wakeling -- 21 August 2011

Dear Mandy Thank you for your question. However, I am always a little concerned when people who say they are mediums ask such a basic spiritual question. It is not that the issue you raise is ...

smelling gas/scorching/buring -- carla -- 6 August 2011

i keep smelling gas/ scorching, come burning, but its the first time ive had this,my dad died two years ago and its his b.birthday today. also ive mised a period could this have anything to do with it

Re: smelling gas/scorching/burning -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 August 2011

Hello Carla Regarding your question about smelling burning, that you became aware of on your father's birthday: If one takes the view that once we pass into the realms of ‘Eternal Light’, loved ...

ghost all the same -- anne -- 14 August 2011

Hi when i was about 6 years old i saw 6 ghosts all looking execly the same, they just watched me then went away, what are they called

Re: ghost all the same -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 August 2011

Hello Anne There is a simple answer. If you can see clearly, these images were not ghosts, they where people from the world of light, our spiritual companions. They may appear to be the same but in ...

Does he know I'm sorry? -- Kerris -- 10 August 2011

Hello Stephen I lost my dad to a sudden unexpected death 3wks ago and I never got to say goodbye, you see we had not been in touch for the last 9yrs due to his marriage. I feel so guilty and unhappy ...

Re: Does he know I'm sorry? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 August 2011

Dear Kerris I am sorry to hear about your heart-rending situation around the passing over of your father. Often, the sad issue of guilt you write about affects people who have not been in close ...

Spiritual Orb? -- Julie -- 9 August 2011

Hi Stephen When on holidays I took the attached photo. There appears to be a large ord next ot my children and a smaller orb in the doorway. There appears to be a face in the larger orb. I do not ...

Re: Spiritual Orb? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 August 2011

Dear Julie Thank you for your question and photograph. First of all, may I point out that ‘Orbs’ is not an area where my spiritual work really gets too involved in, please let me explain? From my ...

grief healing -- Lynda -- 27 July 2011

My soul mate passed away 9 years ago, and I feel like he took most of me with him. The things I used to enjoy, everything. I miss him so much, still. I lack a life at all, and am very content with ...

Re: grief healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 July 2011

Dear Lynda It is always sad to hear of anyone who has lost the great love of their life, particularly when described as a soul mate. Time, is often spoken about with the suggestion that over a period ...

dark shadows -- Dee -- 30 June 2011

Hi, as a family we have often experienced things that we cant explain + as we believe in the spirit world we often use past family etc as an explanation to these experiences. In december my father ...

Re: dark shadows -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 July 2011

Hello Dee Thank you for your question, which is not too dissimilar to many of this kind I receive through the course of my work. However, there is a growing amount of people who allow the modern ...

My son -- Melanie -- 2 July 2011

Hi Stephen, I hope you can help me. I lost my son Sean in January this year. He took his own life and i have been finding life quite difficult ever since his passing and find it quite difficult to ...

Re: My son -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 July 2011

Hello Melanie I am sorry for the slight delay in replying to you owing to just returning from a holiday, where there was no internet connection. Nonetheless, I would like to send my sincere thoughts ...

what books to read -- michael -- 11 June 2011

hi stephen wonder if u can help me i really wanna get into mediumship, had a couple of readings now. which was helpfull, please can u tell me what books are really good to read???? i want to read a ...

Re: what books to read -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 June 2011

Hello Michael This is a type of question I regularly receive. Nonetheless, which book to read, is an individual matter, one book will suit one person and not another. Over my 30 years in this work I ...

My Olivia -- Caroline -- 11 June 2011

Dear Stephen I lost my 17 year old daughter Olivia in March this year, after she was fatally injured in a road traffic accident in Bahrain. She was in intensive care in Bahrain until February and ...

Re: My Olivia -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 June 2011

Dear Caroline First of all I would like to send my sincere thoughts to you and your family regarding the tragic loss you have recently had. I have given considerable thought to your correspondence, ...

sand reading -- nigel -- 10 June 2011

hi stephen is it allowed for a medium to use handprints in sand to do his readings in an snu church if not can you explain why not thanks you regards nige

Re: sand reading -- Stephen Wakeling -- 12 June 2011

Hello Nigel In the first instance thank you for your question. However, with your understanding of the Spiritualist National Union, I am surprised you didn’t ask this question at your local SNU ...

My dreams -- Kwabena -- 27 May 2011

My name kwabena mensah from ghana i used to dream about goddess venus and other gods please help me

Re: My dreams -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 May 2011

Hello Kwabena Thank you for your question. However, I am a little confused about your dreams. May I explain? You refer to Gods and Goddesses in particular the goddess Venus, who was a Roman Goddess ...

Clairvoyant? -- Kim -- 29 May 2011

Stephen, Although I have had experiences in the past, i have recently discovered that I am most likely clairvoyant and clairaudient. For my own sanity I need someone to tell me whether or not I am ...

Re: Clairvoyant? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 June 2011

Hello Kim It is really pleasing to hear from someone who has received direct communication with a loved one in the World of Light. What is also satisfying is how you explained in detail what you ...

lost partner -- tonino -- 24 May 2011

suddenly without a goodbye my long time partner has gone away to where? and when will she return back to me? I would like you to tell me please.

Re: lost partner -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 May 2011

Dear Tonino Thank you for your question. However, in the first instance, may I just clarify one small point? With such a small amount of information, I am unsure of whether you refer to your long ...

Accreditation -- Medium -- 16 May 2011

Hi I am a Medium taking my first steps towards working on the rostrum I would very much like to develop my gift further and would appreciate any information you can give me as to how I can achieve ...

Re: Accreditation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2011

Thank you for your question. I am often asked this or very similar questions. Today, there appears to be much difficulty in finding a spiritual teacher and mentor who has the essential skills for ...

Re: Accreditation -- Medium -- 16 May 2011

Thank you so much for the information, makes sense to me that I don't need to look at accreditations, and to stop listening to others so much, go with my own gut feelings. Guess what I am really ...

i am confused about my soul -- maryam -- 8 May 2011

hello sir i am maryam at night it often happens that my soul is walking or floating in air and my fleshy body still remains in the air

Re: i am confused about my soul -- Stephen Wakeling -- 10 May 2011

Hello Maryam Thank you for your question. It would appear there is a little confusion in your question. I believe that what you are asking about is what is often described as ‘Astral Travel’. There ...

Thank you Sir -- Maryam -- 11 May 2011

Thank you sir for your satisfactory answer it helped me a lot. Almost every day or night i experience some kinds of strange things like when i look very deeply to sky i see that there is a like a ...

Healing -- Julius -- 3 May 2011

Hello, I have health problem with my heart. Do you able to healing me? Or what you can make for me in this situation? How long time I have still in this siuation? Thank you Jlius, Slovakia

Re: Healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 May 2011

Hello Julius May I say how sorry I am to hear about your health problem? Yes, I am fortunate to have the gift of spiritual healing; however, there may be a little confusion about the gift. I believe ...

I keep making the sign of the cross -- Steve -- 1 May 2011

Hi can you help me The thing is it may sound silly I know put I keep doing something and I don’t know why and it makes me think I’m strange. The thing I do is I keep making the sign of the cross and ...

Re: I keep making the sign of the cross -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 May 2011

Hello Steve This question has taken thought and a little research, so that I can give my considered reply to your question. In response, there is possibly only one of two answers to your dilemma. ...

Spiritualism -- Maria -- 1 May 2011

Dear Stephen I have been a believer in Spiritualism for many years, since I lost my first son when he was 5 days old. It is usually the case that we are drawn to the spiritual side of life when we ...

Re: Spiritualism -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 May 2011

Dear Maria May I apologise for the slight delay in getting back to you? I have given considerable thought to your correspondence, taking the view that time was needed to ensure that I was clear in my ...

My brother -- Jane -- 30 April 2011

i have lost my brother in the past month. is he with my mum or dad

Re: My brother -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 April 2011

Dear Jane Thank you for your question. However in the first instance, may I just clarify one small point? With all questions I take the standpoint that my answers are generic, as such I take a ...

spiritual development -- zeljka -- 19 April 2011

Hello Stephen, I'm from Croatia, I am very eager to learn as much as possible about spirituality and was wondering if you could kindly recomend which books and authors is good to start with. So ...

Re: spiritual development -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 April 2011

Hello Zeljka This is an interesting question. However, reading books is an individual matter, as one book will suit one person and not another. Over my 30 years in this work I have read very little, ...

if i be blessed -- Željka -- 10 May 2011

Dear Stephen, I would like to share this song with you to honor Jack Corbett. I posted it in photobucket and this is the link (below) Please, mind I'm just an amateur.. Light and Love, Željka

Re: spiritual development -- Željka -- 30 April 2011

Thank you Stephen for answering and more. I agree now after you pointed out that it is a matter of personal preference and need what literature to begin with. After all, spirituality and etheric ...

fathers death -- Becky -- 18 April 2011

Hello, my father passed recently, he suffered from mental illness. I did not do what I could to help him, I spent most of my time aggervated with the illness, I only stopped in once in awhile. I miss ...

Re: fathers death -- Stephen Wakeling -- 21 April 2011

Hello Becky I am very sorry to hear of the sad situation in which you find yourself in at the moment. When one speaks of mental illness, unless we are professionally qualified, or have wonderful ...

Re: fathers death -- Becky -- 21 April 2011

Thank you.

soul mates -- phyllis -- 9 April 2011

helo stephen, i've been waiting to ask you this question. almost 2 years ago my husband who i love very much commited sucicide, i would like to know if he's ok he was very depressed for many ...

Re: soul mates -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 April 2011

Hello Phyllis First of all it is a pity that you have waited so long to contact anyone, it must have been a very difficult time for both you and all of your family. Personally with any tragic ...

Re: soul mates -- Phyllis -- 24 April 2011

Thank you

mediumship -- angie -- 9 April 2011

hi my name is angie i am writing to u as i have done some spiritualist but would like to learn some more i would like to go on platform and give one to one messages i live in rhyl and would like to ...

Re: mediumship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 1 May 2011

Hello Angie Thank you for your question. My initial thoughts are about your personal desire to go onto the public platform to give messages. To me the reason why anyone wishes to pick up the mantle ...

A dream interpretation. -- Maryse -- 1 April 2011

Dear Mr. Stephen Wakeling, There is a question which has been puzzling me for some time, in fact since the year 2008. In brief, to explain and describe a few elements of this dream, there was as ...

Re: A dream interpretation. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 May 2011

Hello Maryse Thank you for the question. However I am a little perplexed about what exactly you are asking me. Firstly, may I point out that my spiritual gift doesn’t really extend to dreams? ...

opening the mind -- Ian -- 3 April 2011

Hi Stephen, I've always been able to sense things ever since I was a little lad but my partner recently had her cards read and the womantold her of me being gifted and all i need to do to develop ...

Re: opening the mind -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 April 2011

Hello Ian Thank you for your question. In the first instance, may I say that everyone is gifted, each of us, in different ways. When you mention sensing things, this indicates a natural awareness of ...

Please help :) -- Sarah H -- 4 April 2011

Dear Stephen I am not sure if you can help me but I have been having experiences which I desperately need some answers to. I recently met a good friend of my husband's (along with his ...

Re: Please help :) -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 April 2011

Hello Sarah What you describe is something that is not too uncommon. In the first instance, one should try to remember that all people have a spiritual capacity. In some it manifests either as a ...

Development -- Jennie -- 6 April 2011

Hi stephen, I don't know where to start really, I have been told by another medium that I should develop my skill, however, I'm not sure where to start or how to start. I meditate regularly ...

Re: Development -- Stephen Wakeling -- 24 April 2011

Hello Jennie Thank you for your question about spiritual development. I believe there are two basic routes for you to go. Initially you may want to go to a spiritual meeting nearby to where you live. ...

Re: Development -- Jennie -- 28 April 2011

Thank you very much Stephen, I will get in touch with the people you have suggested and go from there. Thank you again. Jennie

"A spirit attached to me" -- Donna -- 23 March 2011

Hello Stephen May I introduce myself my name is Donna. I was wondering if there is any chance that you can [help] me. I have a spirit attached to me, can you tell me what to do to stop it is really ...

Re: "A spirit attached to me" -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2011

Hello Donna These days, there are an emergent number of people, like yourself, who have a similar problem to the one you describe. Over the last few years, there has been a growing indulgence in ...

lost someone -- Miss Taylor -- 20 March 2011

My son's father committed suicide 8 years ago, I've allways blamed my self I cannot be at peace, please help me. He tried to commit sucicide before I met him also, I don't know why ...

Re: lost someone -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2011

Hello Donna, The tragic loss of anyone, particularly a close friend, family member or loved one through suicide is heart wrenching and devastating. For any person, to be at such an unhappy period, is ...

Podcast "Spirituality or Religion?", Produced by JonnyMGreen -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

First in a new interview based Podcast series featuring Spiritual Medium Stephen Wakeling. This one covers the subject of Spirituality vs Religon. Produced by JonnyMGreen For more information visit ...

Re: Podcast "Spirituality or Religion?", Produced by JonnyMGreen -- Cathy -- 14 March 2011

I loved listening to your podcast. Before I forget, yes please do talk about "ghosts." It's very insulting to us and I'm sure our loved ones in spirit, to have them mocked as Hollywood ghosts ...

Where to start? -- Lisa -- 6 March 2011

Hello Stephen I have just been to your website and found it really interesting. I am after a little bit of advice really, I understand your very busy but just thought I would contact you to share my ...

Re: Where to start? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 6 March 2011

Hello Lisa, May I first of all say that I am sorry for my very late reply. I am always snowed under with e-mail. But last week I had a bout of migraine followed by food poisoning, which has really ...

my mother who passed march 20th 2008 at 4:15 how is she -- Janet -- 5 March 2011

my mother passed march 20th march 20th 2008 at 4:15. Is she ok and around me?

Re: my mother who passed march 20th 2008 at 4:15 how is she -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

Hello Janet, The question you ask is a very normal one for many people who are seeking to come to terms with a tragic loss of a loved one. However may I say how sorry I am to hear about your very sad ...

Be a medium - Help -- Hussein -- 5 March 2011

Hello dear Medium! I'm sending this mail from Iran.I'm a boy and I love spiritual subjects, I also read many books about this subject. I have 2 questions: 1. What's the best way to ...

Re: Be a medium - Help -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

Salam Kaifa Haloka, Greeting my friend. I am taking the liberty of addressing you in Arabic, owing to the fact that you are from Iran. First of all I find it most interesting that you are seeking ...

Are our future spouses predestined? -- Cathy -- 4 March 2011

Hi Stephen, In your opinion/experience over the years, is our future marriage partner predetermined? Can bad timing and temporary obstacles affect the outcome or just delay it some? I feel I have ...

Re: Are our future spouses predestined? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

Hello Cathy, Thank you for your question. In the first instance, I can only give my personal views on your request. Nonetheless, I am more of the thinking of a ‘fatalist’, which means I am someone ...

Re: Are our future spouses predestined? -- Cathy -- 14 March 2011

Thank you so very much for your very thoughful reply. I really loved the example you used, of you and your wife! What a wonderful love story! :) When you know, you instantly just know. I feel the ...

In their heads -- SMR -- 24 February 2011

I am told often to "get out of my head." Just this evening I text my sister, who lives in another state, if she's pregnant. She and her husband have been kind of trying for almost a year. Today ...

Re: In their heads -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 February 2011

Hello SMR, I have read with interest your account of sensing various situations. If I understand what you are saying, you are indicating that most of the time the thoughts you pick up come true? The ...

Message from Spirit or My Imagination? -- MA -- 20 February 2011

Hello Stephen At the moment I am at present doing mediumship development classes at a Spiritualist Centre in B, England. Can I ask you a question about the messages I get in my head? When I am in ...

Re: Message from Spirit or My Imagination? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 20 February 2011

Hello Marie Regarding you spiritual question, my initial thoughts are that if you are in a Development Group, you already have a teacher/mentor. The problem is that I am not your teacher, so I can ...

HELP- Passing away of my husband -- Buna -- 14 February 2011

Hi, My husband passed away last year in a couple of months it will be one year. How do I find out what was his purpose in this world? And (his purpose )it's connection to me? He only complained ...

Re: HELP- Passing away of my husband -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 February 2011

Dear Buna, First of all, may I say how sorry I am to hear of your very sad loss? I always feel that the first calendar year of a passing of any kind is the most difficult. No matter what any person ...

golden keys -- nikki -- 13 February 2011

my friend who likes to go to the spiritualist church was asked by the spirit medium there if she was willing to accept the golden keys she said yes but is unsure what this means. can you help please ?

Re: golden keys -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 February 2011

Hi Nikki, Further to your question about the “Golden Keys”: I have been conducting the work of a spiritual medium for over 30 years, and must confess that I have never heard this term. There may of ...

passing of loved one -- stephanie -- 3 February 2011

hello! the love of my life passed on nov. 1, 2009 ive know him since i was 14 years old. i am 48 now. i have 2 kids with him. i was wanting to know if he was at peace and who he is with?? thank you!

Re: passing of loved one -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 February 2011

Hello Stephanie, In the first instance may I say how sorry I am to hear about your very sad loss? It is particularly difficult when there has been a long and sustained bond of love between two ...

What's life like after death? -- George -- 30 January 2011

Dear Stephen My questions may seem rather antagonistic but I can assure you that I have thought about them and I am not trying to be controversial. Spiritualists claim they are able to speak to dead. ...

Re: What's life like after death? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 February 2011

Hello George First of all, sorry for the late reply, but I have been on a holiday with my grandson and unfortunately there was no internet access, hence the delay. Generally, I only usually have one, ...

elvis presley whats he thinking -- jean -- 19 January 2011

Re: elvis presley whats he thinking -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 January 2011

Hello This is an interesting question. Why? It is simple, anyone who is a genuine spiritual medium will tell you that we do not read minds. Some people feel we can, but the truth is we cannot! Our ...

my life -- cathy -- 22 January 2011

hi stephen can you tell me if my stepson is around my daughter she feels that he is. also will there be happiness for her in the future? thanks cathy

Re: my life -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 January 2011

Hello Cathy First of all may I say I am sorry to hear of your sad loss? I would like to point out that no matter how much mediums or others may say, there will always be the pain of losing a child. I ...

wedding -- morag -- 15 January 2011

hi stephen, i am planing my wedding and i would like spiritual wedding in july this yaer, but i am having difficalty finding a spiritual medium how is legale aball it do the seromeny, can you help me ...

Re: wedding -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 January 2011

Hi Morag, I am sorry for a slight delay in getting back to you. But I had to check out a few facts. I am taking the assumption you reside in the United Kingdom. I have asked a friend of mine who is a ...

I am lost... -- Angelina -- 7 January 2011

Stephen, I came across this website and thought maybe it was for a reason? I really believe that everything happens for a reason. Ever since I can remember I have always seen ghosts/spirits and felt ...

Re: I am lost... -- Stephen Wakeling -- 10 January 2011

Hello Angelina, Many thanks for contacting me. You mention initially that things happen for a reason – like you I also believe this. There are a few questions to answer. But all seem to point in one ...

Where is he? -- Cholena -- 19 December 2010

Hi Stephen, I came to ask you about my grandfather, he passed on my sisters birthday back in 2004. Ever since then my life has turned upside down, in and out of psychiatric hospitals and whatnot. I ...

Re: Where is he? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 December 2010

Hello, First of all, may I say that I am very sorry to hear about your difficult problem of ‘closure’, which is something that many people have trouble with. There is no hard and fast rule to ...

Letter to Norman Bomar, Escondido CA - Follow up to my trip to California (Sept - Oct 2010) -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2010

Mr. Norman Bomar Sales Executive Quality Chevrolet of Escondido 1550 Auto Park Way Escondido California 920290 United States of America 1st December 2010 Reference: Top Quality Customer Service Hi ...

pet spirits and souls -- Mary Beth -- 2 December 2010

Hello, I believe in the after life and also that our loved ones can and do stay connected to us on this plain. I recently had to put my beloved black lab retriever to eternal rest. I am struggling ...

Re: pet spirits and souls -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2010

Hello Mary Beth, The love one keeps and holds for a pet can often be far greater, because of the interaction we have with the animal world. Like you, I have seen my family pets leave this world. If ...

Re: pet spirits and souls -- Jane. -- 15 March 2012

Hi Stephen. My old canine soul mate and best friend died recently. I am desperately empty and sad without him. I need to know if he will be in the spiritual world and happy. I had him for 14 years - ...

Intense Experience -- K -- 1 December 2010

Hi Stephen, Please can you help me to understand what happened to me in the circle. I have been going to the spiritual church development class for 5 months and prior to this (in class) have seen ...

Re: Intense Experience -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2010

Hello K, Following your question I have deliberately taken time to answer. Owing to the fact that there appears top be a series of answers, you are looking for. However, initially I would suggest ...

my mother -- edith -- 31 October 2010

I wish to reach my deceased mother.

Re: my mother -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 November 2010

Thank you for your question, Edith. First of all may I draw your attention to one simple fact that it is those in the ‘World of Light’ who contact us here in Earth, and not the other way around? ...

Spiritual Work in California (Part 1): El Segundo, Escondido and Gardena -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 October 2010

California is vibrant, warm, exciting and unique. Nothing is more evident with its diverse acceptance of life than within its spiritual understanding, which presents openness, a key to opportunity ...

Spiritual Work in California (Part 2): California, a Spiritual Doorway - Feedbacks from the 3 events -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 October 2010

Throughout our physical life, we all have hopes, desire and aspirations. In our earthly quest, we occasionally hit a closed or blocked door. Often, in our desire to move forward, we push and push at ...

Spiritual Work in California (Part 3): More photos of Stephen's trip to America -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 October 2010

The Pacific Ocean Steve on the Pier of Venice Beach Steve and his wife Linda Steve and Linda in the garden of the First United Spiritualist Church of Gardena, California Steve at the First ...

death case -- carla -- 24 October 2010

I'm looking for someone to help me probono with a death case ...can anyoneone help me please??????????????? Thanks Carla

Re: death case -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 October 2010

Hello Carla I have given this question a lot of thought; sadly it is not an area where I personally do my spiritual work. From you question I understand that you are looking for a psychic detective. ...

I see spirit & spirit light -- gina and ian -- 26 October 2010

hi Stephen, For the last two years or so I have seen spirit. It all started at home with the lamps going on & off, also the time on the clock would change and within days go back to the correct time. ...

Re: I see spirit & spirit light -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 October 2010

Hello Gina, I read with interest you growing awareness of spiritual matters. Some people believe we see spirit, but I much prefer my spiritual teacher’s observation, in that we only see the ‘form of ...

reply to your answer -- gina -- 16 November 2010

thank you so very much for a rapid response to my questions, its wonderful to get positive answers from someone as popular as yourself. I have seen you a couple of times at portobello s church & was ...

glowing shadows -- sonya -- 13 October 2010

Helo steven.. I keep seeing a glowing shadow around some psychic's when i vist my local church, sometime it gets bigger and darker . At first when i saw it i thought it was me being tied but the ...

Re: glowing shadows -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 October 2010

Hello Sonya Thank you. This is a very interesting question. The reference to seeing a glow around the medium, at a local church, shows your ability to see the movement of spiritual energy around the ...

spirit world -- julie -- 11 October 2010

hi my name is julie i lost my dad suddenley on 10th november 2004 i cant get over his death i find each day hard i love him so much and i miss him he died in a horrible way and most of been in loads ...

Re: spirit world -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 October 2010

Hello Julie I am really sorry to hear of your sad news about your father. It is very difficult to get over any loss, but with tragic circumstances, the sorrow can often last for a greater length of ...

mediumship -- Belinda -- 10 October 2010

Hi there Stephen, I have been struggling to find a site like this. I started my spiritual journey a year ago, i never knew that i was going through it at the time until i explained it to a woman that ...

Re: mediumship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 October 2010

Hello Belinda My apologies for my late reply but I have been away in California, and just returned to England. First of all, you mention your spiritual journey and at the point where you feel it ...

career -- Silvana -- 28 September 2010

Hi, there just came across this site, while looking for work. I just finished a Spiiritual Psychotherapy and Director Program at a colledge for one full year.I did case studies at a church, but know ...

Re: career -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 October 2010

Hello Silvana Thank you for your question. My initial thought is whether you are asking a spiritual or material question, are you seeking material or spiritual guidance. Therefore, owing to my ...

i feel stuck -- christine -- 12 September 2010

Hi Stephen, My name is Christine, i am a Spiritual loving person, lately i have been feeling stuck, i do Reiki, and sekhem energy healing as well as massage. I only receive a disability pension and ...

Re: i feel stuck -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 September 2010

Hello Christine, I read with interest your appreciation of spiritual matters and you various interests in different aspects and concepts of healing. I am sorry to hear about your disability and your ...

Looking for controlled studies on outcome-based studies on parapsychological phenomena -- Ed -- 7 September 2010

I am an agnostic. I have done extensive reserch in the arena of parapsychology because I have a vested interest in finding out whether consciousness continues after death. I am looking for controlled ...

Re: Looking for controlled studies on outcome-based studies on parapsychological phenomena -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 September 2010

Hello Ed, I find this an unusual question in that there is only one definitive answer, which is the one you personally want. Some who seek the continuity of life after physical death are totally ...

orbs -- nicholas -- 30 August 2010

can you tell me if my mom has someone doing bad to her and when she was little she seen orbs all around her, what is happening to my mom she seems like she is having a nervous breakdown or someone is ...

Re: orbs -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 September 2010

Hello Nicholas, Initially I feel there is lot of confusion around you and some misunderstanding about spiritual matters. There are a lot of views on orbs and what it means when one sees them. First ...

mum -- marymcinulty -- 26 August 2010

hi there iwas wondering is it really true that the soul leaves your body about 4 weeks before you pass ,the reason i am asking is my mum has lung cancer now for 2 and half years radiotherapy was ...

Re: mum -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 September 2010

Hello Mary, First of all, may I extend to you at this very sad and difficult time my sincere thoughts and prayers. It is a harrowing time when one are faced with seeing a loved one, where the pain ...

Spirit Guides, Angels etc. -- Rita -- 14 August 2010

Mr. Wakeling, How do i find out more about who are my spirit guide/s and angel/s? I did get an answer once (in my mind) who my spirit guide is, but how do i really know if that is true or just my ...

Re: Spirit Guides, Angels etc. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 August 2010

Hello Rita This is an interesting question, one that happens once a person has started to open up their spiritual faculties. However, in the first instance may I dwell upon the words Spirit Guide? ...

clairvoyance -- lena -- 13 August 2010

Dear Stephen, I have been reading your blog and my question is.. How does one know if they are gifted or like you said "just wish to be". I have studied, been to Stanstead and frequently told I was ...

Re: clairvoyance -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 August 2010

Dear Lena, Regarding your interest on spiritual matters, the first thing and an important one, is that we are all gifted in one way or another, the difference is the capacity we each possess. I would ...

Re: clairvoyance -- lena -- 19 August 2010

Dear Stephen, Thank you so much for your very honest answer.. One that seems to me to be the answer I was looking for to explain much that I have seen, heard and learnt..Empathy is my gift, one that ...

Trance Mediumship -- malcolm -- 17 May 2010

Hi my question is regarding "Trance Medumship". I have been a working medium for the last 47 years. I am now and have been for some time past very interested in becoming a ( Trance Medium ) I live in ...

Re: Trance Mediumship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 24 May 2010

Hello Malcolm, Thank you for your question about Trance Mediumship. I am a little surprised that with the years of mediumship you mention, this subject has not brought you your own conclusions. ...

High sence of intuition. -- Prad -- 11 May 2010

Dear Stephen, For a long time I knew there was something different about my thoughts and sensitivities. In 2005 I lost my father which was unexpected. Two days before his passing I told him off for ...

Re: High sence of intuition. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2010

Thanks for your question, one that is a direct reference to your intuitive nature and spiritual capacity. Your reference to the squabble is not unusual, we all say things that later give us regret, ...

auric attacks -- anthony -- 11 May 2010

Dear Stephen, I have had a attachment problem very bad its ade my life rotten, it locks into aura no matter how much healing i have it i assume 'steal' healing energy as I am constantly ...

Re: auric attacks -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2010

Hi Antony many thanks for question. I am somewhat confused by your question, but very much sympathise with your situation. In the first instance I would take the assumption that someone who has ...

Suffering, why? -- Tricia -- 9 May 2010

This is something that my mother and myself have often discussed and have no clear cut answers. Why, when it's time for that person to pass on, the build up towards it can be full of suffering ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2010

Hello Tricia This is a question I hear quite often and a situation all of us encounter during you physical lives. First of all, one may look at the fact that the physical body has only a period of ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Tricia -- 18 May 2010

Thank you very much for your reply Stephen. It is said that when it's our time to pass, it will happen but what about those people who have health issues to the point that they will never get ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 May 2010

Hello again Tricia Thanks for your question. You mention the problems relating to the quality of life and many health issues people experience prior to their passing from this life into the realms of ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Tricia -- 2 June 2010

Hello Stephen You must be a pretty busy person and thank you again for taking the time to read and reply to my last question. As you say, we can not have all the answers, I can understand this. Life, ...

strange feeling when healing -- annette -- 28 April 2010

Ive not had healing for some year ,but over couple day i have seen a image on a pic a had taken sometime ago . which scared me some so i tuck it to my healer she said not to worrid its my angel so i ...

Re: strange feeling when healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 May 2010

Regarding your question, I have taken time to think; please find my thoughts: But, first of all may I say that though I have over 30 years of experience in spiritual matters, I am not the panacea of ...

Messages from the 'other-side' -- Janet -- 25 March 2010

Hi Stephen, I hope you don't mind me asking you this question but, I have often wondered when mediums give messages to people from the 'other-side' how does a medium know if that ...

Re: Messages from the 'other-side' -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 March 2010

Hello Janet, Regarding your question, the cause of much confusion is that there are many people who think, or wish, they have the capacity to be Spiritual Mediums. With this in mind, one also has to ...

Thank you... -- Janet -- 30 March 2010

Hi Stephen, Thank you so much for your reply......which has helped me understand a lot more now. But, I must tell you that about half an hour ago I was emailing to a friend of mine when a very loud ...

Re: Thank you... -- Stephen Wakeling -- 6 April 2010

Hello Janet In the first instance you mention a ‘bang’. It could be a normal occurrence, yet it could be someone in the World of Light who wants to draw your attention. Simply just letting know that ...

Why am i loosing everything? *NM* -- Anita -- 12 March 2010

Re: Why am i loosing everything? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 March 2010

Unfortunately there is not enough information to be precise. However, taking a restricted view, that the situation could be one of many perhaps a medical, material or spiritual one. If it is a ...

Spirit message vs. imagination -- Myra -- 19 March 2010

Hi Stephen, I saw your amazing mediumship at Portobello, Edinburgh, once. My question is, although I have had spiritual experiences all my life and have done hundreds of personal mediumship readings, ...

Re: Spirit message vs. imagination -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 March 2010

May I say thank you for your very kind words about my evening of Clairvoyance at Portobello Spiritualist Church in the great City of Edinburgh, Scotland. Regarding your question, you mention the most ...

communicating with spirits -- Carla -- 14 March 2010

How do I find someone who can tell me about family members that have passed-on ? Can you help me ?

Re: communicating with spirits -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 March 2010

This is a question that I am asked more, and more and more these days. Why? The reason is simple, because there are many people who are not truly gifted for the work of spiritual mediumship, but wish ...

Dream or Reality? -- Anna -- 16 February 2010

Hello, my name is Anna, can I ask you about an experience of mine. I was lying half asleep, but very aware. There was a young man in his mid 40s and he took my hand. He spoke to me about my life and ...

Re: Dream or Reality? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 February 2010

Hello Anna, Many thanks for your message. I often have questions which take time to answer, but with this one, there is a simplicity that is reflective of the purity of spiritual contact and ...

mental health -- june -- 19 January 2010

hi stephen i suffer with depression and at times i have bad patches, when i find life hard to cope with. i also have a very low self asteme. i did try healing before and felt great for a while,but ...

Re: mental health -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 January 2010

When I get spiritual questions I often have to wait a little time for guidance, information or inspiration. However, with this question my answer was almost immediate. Nonetheless, let us take a step ...