Medium Stephen Wakeling Answers Your Questions

Hi! I am Spiritual Medium Stephen Wakeling (see 'Who I am'). I welcome your questions about spiritual communications, spiritual unfoldment, mediumship, energy fields and auras, life after death and animal spirits. I will reply on this board, normally within 4 days (unless I am traveling). Stephen stephenwakeling.com.
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my dad -- claire -- 31 January 2012

Hi. My dad died very suddenly 14 weeks ago today. no illness,he was as fit as a fiddle but one day without any warning he was gone. A massive heart attack. i worshipped my dad,he was my hero. i miss ...

Re: my dad -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 February 2012

Dear Claire First of all may I say how sorry I am to hear the sad news of your father’s passing? One would imagine with the festive period on the horizon, the distress was even more heart rendering, ...

Developing my subjective clairvoyance -- Stacey -- 29 January 2012

Hi Stephen, I wonder if you can help me... For several years now I have experienced what I always referred to as a "busy mind". Whenever I am alone with time to think, random images would enter my ...

Re: Developing my subjective clairvoyance -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 February 2012

Dear Stacey Thank you for your e-mail and taking the time and patience to redirect your question to ‘Spiritualist Resources’. Just to confirm that owing to time restraints I only answer spiritual ...

Re: Developing my subjective clairvoyance -- Stacey -- 5 February 2012

Hi Stephen, Thank you so much for your response. I have done quite a lot of reading into the subject over the last week. I think a spiritual teacher is the way to go. I am determined to develop my ...

mediums challenge -- A M -- 15 January 2012

Why have my bookings dried up? I had been doing mediumship for some years and i feel if I was no good then I should have been told. Iknow there is protocols as to informing mediums but Ithink this is ...

Re: mediums challenge -- Stephen Wakeling -- 21 January 2012

Hello A, Thank you for your question. I have taken time to ponder upon what from the outset appears a simple response; however I feel there is greater depth and content required on this subject. ...

spirit orbs? -- Sara -- 13 January 2012

I believe I may have had a few experiences with spirit orbs. I know very little about these except I've heard that they are spirits that are getting ready to manifest themselves. My question is, ...

Re: spirit orbs? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 January 2012

Dear Sara This is an interesting question, though there are many schools of thought about this particular subject. However, may I say ‘Orbs’ is not an area where my spiritual work really gets too ...

Re: spirit orbs? -- Sara -- 16 January 2012

Mr. Wakeling, Thank you very much for responding and what a beautiful response. I do truly believe he visited me. Its hard to talk about this with just anyone without them thinking youre nuts but I ...

spirits -- james -- 5 January 2012

Dear Stephen About seven years ago four spirits entered my home; they were a mother, her two children and a dog. The mother and one of the children have gone - that was two years ago, the dog and a ...

Re: spirits -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 January 2012

Hi James The question is confusing so I have pieced together a simple answer. You mention being aware of a group of people who have moved out from this physical world into light. Not an uncommon ...

Groups with Voting Authority in Heaven -- Donna B -- 2 January 2012

Dear Stephen Wakeling, Can you tell me anything about Groups with Voting Authority in Heaven? I have had two experiences in this regard since my Voice (singing) Teacher, Charlene Andres, passed away ...

Re: Groups with Voting Authority in Heaven -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 January 2012

Hello Donna, Voting is within the material and material doesn't count for anything in the 'World of Soul'. I feel from your question that there is confusion between this world and the ...

the spirit world -- angela -- 2 January 2012

hello, since i was a young child, i have had the "ability" to attract spirits in sleep and while awake, spirits of all kinds, good and not so good. sometimes they come to me in my sleep, and ...

Re: the spirit world -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 January 2012

Dear Angela I have looked at your question a few times now, trying to ascertain the underlying question. My conclusion is there seems to be a terrible amount of confusion about the ‘natural spiritual ...

She is gone -- Denise -- 2 January 2012

My nan died recently ,I found it more painful than I could of ever imagined as her husband ( my grandad) sexually abused me and my sister for many years I put a letter in her Cardigan in the chapel ...

Re: She is gone -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 January 2012

Dear Denise In the first instance, may I say how sorry I am to hear of the sad loss of your grandmother? However, I have to confirm my reply to you strictly disassociates with any superstition, or ...

Seminar experience. -- Graham -- 1 January 2012

Hi Im a 36 year old adult. When I was 19 I attended a walk in Seminar at the Spiritualist Centre, Belgrave Square, London. At the time I had no idea what i was attending as I was just visiting london ...

Re: Seminar experience. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 January 2012

Dear Graham Thank you for your interesting question of a situation which happened so many years ago yet still very much within your thoughts. Regarding the situation you mention I am not familiar ...

I recently lost my Mom -- A -- 31 December 2011

Hello, I came across your site while searching Google. I recently lost my Mom. I have been facing so much difficulty accepting it. I want to talk to my mother to know if she is doing ok. I must ...

Re: I recently lost my Mom -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 December 2011

Dear A, Having read your two e-mails I have tried to bring them together to grasp the depth of the very sad loss of your mother. I do like to take time, and give a lot of thought to my replies. Your ...

death of my father -- sandra -- 30 December 2011

I lost my dad on 23rd december 2011 at age of 89 years. We were very close and i have always been there for him. However he was taken to hospital on 8th december 2011 and though i visited as i could, ...

Re: death of my father -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 January 2012

Dear Sandra May I say how sorry I am to hear the sad news of your father’s passing? Whatever time in the year, Christmas or festive times are often more distressing and poignant, which brings the ...

Re: death of my father -- sandra s -- 3 January 2012

Dear Stephen Thank you for the wonderful reply to my letter, which i found very comforting. I will be taking up all your advice and would one day like nothing better, than to meet you in person - ...

Christmas Concert In Heaven -- Donna -- 29 December 2011

Dear Stephen Wakeling, I have had many spiritual experiences, and one of the things that I have become aware of is the Christmas Concert that happens in Heaven each year just before Christmas. The ...

Re: Christmas Concert In Heaven -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 January 2012

Dear Donna Many thanks for your interesting and thought provoking question about a Christmas Concert in the ‘World of Light’. Perhaps I am not the person best suited to answer this question; ...

development -- jessica s -- 22 December 2011

Hi. My name is Jessica. I live in a part of the USA where there aren't too many opportunities for development. Currently, I am developing my spiritual gifts, and I have learned to contact my ...

Re: development -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 December 2011

Hello Jessica Many thanks for your interesting question. I have spoken about the point you raise many times at ‘Spiritualist Churches’ over the last few years – where do you develop in parts of the ...

Further to our conversation -- S -- 4 December 2011

Hi Stephen I don't know if you will remember me, I was very upset about a close friend of my youngest son who took his life at 15 years old? I couldn't make sense of it, why he would want to ...

Re: Further to our conversation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 December 2011

Dear S. Thank you for your sad correspondence. I am sorry for the delay in replying it is that I have been away in Spain, to be precise Tenerife. The situation of why a person seeks to end their ...

About Pet Spirits and Souls -- L -- 4 December 2011

I just read Stephen Wakeling's article on Pet Sprits and Souls. Yesterday, I had to put my beloved 12 year old Yorkie to sleep as she had cancer of the heart, liver and spleen. I've had her ...

Re: About Pet Spirits and Souls -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2011

Hello L Many thanks for your question. As a pet owner for as many years as I can remember, may I say how sorry I am to hear about the physical loss of your Yorkshire Terrier? We can often be closer ...

Help my husband deal with his loss -- Julie -- 28 November 2011

Dear Stephen, My father in law passed away just over a year ago and my husband is finding it extremely difficult to come to terms with as he was very close to his father and doesn't believe that ...

Re: Help my husband deal with his loss -- Stephen Wakeling -- 2 December 2011

Dear Julie I am extremely sorry to hear of your sad news and the obvious difficulties you are having at this point in time. My thoughts are for you and your husband. It is not easy for any person who ...

Financial situation -- Thaiba -- 14 November 2011

sir good morning. i am from india. what about my future financial and family situation

Re: Financial situation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 20 November 2011

Namaste Thaiba Thank you for your question. However, in the first instance, may I explain a little about my work as a spiritual medium? Spiritual mediums use a divine gift to interact with people who ...

too emotionally involved -- Sam -- 20 November 2011

Hi there, I don't "work" as a medium but I do get very clear messages for people and I have been told I am good at psychic mediumship . Its not something I actively seek out and mainly because I ...

Re: too emotionally involved -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 November 2011

Dear Sam Thanks for your question, sorry for the late reply but I have been away for a few days, having a little peace from the internet. I have taken sometime looking at your enquiry, which is one ...

Re: too emotionally involved -- Sam Dodd -- 26 November 2011

Ty so much ! Its hard at times to get a fully understanding answer and for the past 10 years I have kind of shunned the limelight and refused to fully take any definate steps because I always felt ...

my father -- elaine -- 16 November 2011

my father passed away last september before his death from colon cancer he wasnt eating i tried to get him to but he wouldnt and he got angry saying i would suffer after his death in which i have ...

Re: my father -- Stephen Wakeling -- 20 November 2011

Dear Elaine When I receive enquiries similar to yours I like to take time, and give depth of thought to my answer. Questions like yours, infer content which is emotional and poignant, necessitating ...

Unsure -- Dave -- 10 November 2011

As a medium, I need to know an important question. Do you have any opinion on the Carbon Tax, do you foresee a future for the Gillard government? I actually really need to know...hope you can help or ...

Re: Unsure -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 November 2011

Dear Dave I am a little perplexed at this question. My initial view was simple to say the least. If you are a medium, why ask me? However, one has to take the view; we all only see a small part of ...

the 3rd child? -- Shannon Smith -- 10 November 2011

lately I've been feeling the presence of a child I have had this happen before I got pregnant with my other 2 daughters. I have been wanting another child for a long time I just want to know if I ...

Re: the 3rd child? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 November 2011

Dear Shannon Thank you for your question asking about a third child. I am sensitive of the conscious of your question, and the situation you mention. However, this particular query is not within the ...

Have I been here before? -- Julia -- 2 November 2011

Hello. I have always had a fascination with the Tudor period in history, even as a child. I can talk for hours as if I'm an expert, though i could never profess to being one. When I visited ...

Re: Have I been here before? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 November 2011

Hello Julia Thank you for your interesting question about life in the Tudor period of English history. There are many people who have similar connections to precise times in history. I come from a ...

Dream or not -- christopher -- 31 October 2011

I dont know if my mind is playing tricks on or if im dreaming or if i did experience anything? Recently ive been having trouble at night. As i woke up i seen a dark figure above me and i could not ...

Re: Dream or not -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 November 2011

Hi Christopher Further to your question about dreaming or reality; you mention not sleeping well at night and a dark figure about you. Often there is confusion over the simplicity of dreams and ...

Contacting spirits through lucid dreaming. -- Tarryn -- 30 October 2011

Hi Stephen Is it possible to contact a deceased loved one through lucid dreaming? And how would you know it was really them, and not just a subconscious projection? The reason I am asking is that I ...

Re: Contacting spirits through lucid dreaming. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 November 2011

Dear Tarryn Thanks you for your interesting question. In the first instance, may I explain something quite simple about dreams? Dreams are a natural occurrence, which allows for the movement of our ...

Re: Contacting spirits through lucid dreaming. -- Tarryn -- 3 November 2011

Stephen, thank you so much for taking such care and time to answer my question. Your answer was wonderful, and much appreciated. Bless you. Tarryn

emotional healing -- Gabriela -- 26 October 2011

I am watching my 30 year old son continue in the same relationship that is destructive, how can I help him find the right emotional enlightment to heal himself. That will solve the problem.

Re: emotional healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 October 2011

Dear Gabriela Having carefully looked at your question, with a limited amount of information, I have taken the presumption you have great concern about your son. If this is the case, you have an ...

Is this how it starts ? -- Marlena -- 24 October 2011

Hello Stephen, I have been having some things happen in the last few years that are really starting to worry me, and maybe you can help me to figure it out a bit. I will try to make this as short as ...

Re: Is this how it starts ? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 October 2011

Hello Marlena My initial thoughts are you need to grasp spiritual understanding, which will allow you to build knowledge and attunement. Please, may I explain? I am sorry to hear of your ...

I am the lost soul on this earth -- Marika -- 23 October 2011

Hello Stephen, I am so blessed I find you to communicate with you. I live in Australia, and I have only one question to you please, help me!!! What should I do , and manage my life in the best way, ...

Re: I am the lost soul on this earth -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 October 2011

Hello Marika Thank you for your correspondence. It would appear from your words your life in not in harmony, and in a state of imbalance. Often I receive similar questions, yet the only thing you ...

new relationship -- jackie -- 12 October 2011

will i find happiness

Re: new relationship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 October 2011

Dear Jackie It is very difficult for anyone to give a definitive answer to a question structured with only three words. One could only assume you are seeking clarification about your personal ...

Spiritual Path -- Deborah -- 16 October 2011

Hi Stephen, In the past year or so I have been learning about my spiritual path, unfortunately I feel stuck and unsure of how to proceed further. Or if I'm even on the right path. Can you see if ...

Re: Spiritual Path -- Stephen Wakeling -- 17 October 2011

Hello Deborah My first thoughts are, you have only been aware of your pathway to spiritual attainment for a short period of time. Development of your spiritual faculty has to work in tandem, running ...

Need help -- Carla -- 5 October 2011

I need help I have alot of pain in my body I think someone might have put a curse on me I need help to get my life back. What ever is happing is affecting me relationship with me and my daughter my ...

Re: Need help -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 October 2011

Dear Carla Thank you for your question. I am a little unsure as to your narrative: are you having physical pain, or are you alluding to someone who could have placed a curse upon you? Let’s take the ...

what does my life hold -- margaret -- 3 October 2011

i always feel lost and sad what does my life hold for me will i ever feel happy.

Re: what does my life hold -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 October 2011

Hello Margaret Thank you for your question. It is always saddening to hear of anyone whose life appears to be down and unhappy. Life is a collection of experiences during our physical life; we all ...

My dog died -- Maria -- 3 October 2011

hello im portuguese. and im in some distress has ive lost my beloved dog berlioz a beautiful and sweet golden retriever of sad eyes. im with dificulties in accept his death. nevertheless,he was 13 ...

Re: My dog died -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 October 2011

Hello Maria I am very sorry to hear of your very sad loss. Often the love one keeps and holds for a pet can be greater, because of the natural ease of our interaction with the animal world. Like you, ...

Re: My dog died -- maria ladeira -- 11 October 2011

stefhen may god bless you for your words.im deeply grateful to you .i understand you know so well this pain for your pets and alowd me to say you are a brave man as you have many pets and you keep ...

Re: what does my life hold -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 October 2011

Hello Margaret Thank you for your question. It is always saddening to hear of anyone whose life appears to be down and unhappy. Life is a collection of experiences during our physical life; we all ...

Afterlife & Reincarnation -- Ciro Verdi -- 27 September 2011

Hello Stephen, I have not had any paranormal experiences that I am aware of except having a privileged life and three accomplished careers where, uncannily, door after door, uninitiated by me, opened ...

Re: Afterlife & Reincarnation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 October 2011

Hell Ciro May I explain that in general I only answer one question at a time, for each person, owing to time restraints? However, the first question is quite a simple answer, though there might be a ...

Closure -- Lynne -- 20 September 2011

Dear Stephen, I am 58 and have struggled with this since just after my 14th birthday - 3rd August 1967. You see, my father was killed on the 22nd August 1967 - or so it seemed at the time - ...

Re: Closure -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 September 2011

Dear Lynne Thank you for your correspondence. I have taken sometime to reply, because I needed to reflect deeply upon my answer to you. Many of the questions I receive have a direct connection with ...

Need help -- Patricia -- 13 September 2011

Dear Stephen, I have been widowed almost two years now. My beloved husband Kevin died from an illness he contracted whilst on business in the Far East. Shortly afterwards I moved from Crawley East ...

Re: Need help -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 September 2011

Dear Patricia Many thanks for your poignant, sad, though very interesting letter. I have so many parallels with the content, the questions you ask make it even more worthy of note for me to respond ...

My sister -- Clare -- 10 September 2011

Dear Stephen I hope you can help me but i don't know if you can. it would be wonderful if you could explain what is happening to me as I never 'get' for myself. Could my intuition be ...

Re: My sister -- Stephen Wakeling -- 15 September 2011

Dear Clare Many thanks for your question in which you infer you never get anything for yourself. Not an uncommon enquiry, though the answer is rather simple: The answer is within you comment “share ...

spirit world -- natasha -- 1 September 2011

hi could you tell m if my baby nephew is alright he passed 29 may 2010 and who he is with

Re: spirit world -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 September 2011

Dear Natasha Thank you for your e-mail. However before I give my explanation, may I draw your attention to an important point? With all questions, I take the standpoint that my answers are generic ...

my beloved bro -- Rao -- 21 August 2011

Dear Sir, I’m Rao from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I just have gone through this article. I lost my 37 yrs brother a year ago without knowing what a reason. He went to bed at 2 am and when I woke him up ...

Re: my beloved bro -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 August 2011

Dear Rao First of all may I say how sorry I am to hear about the passing of your brother? The sadness of loss, grief and sorrow is felt within our hearts for our loved ones, until we are reunited in ...

My mother in law -- Mandy -- 17 August 2011

Dear Stephen, My name is Mandy and I am a medium. My other in law is 85 years old and has been ill on and off all of this year. She is particularly not well at present and I am doing my best to care ...

Re: My mother in law -- Stephen Wakeling -- 21 August 2011

Dear Mandy Thank you for your question. However, I am always a little concerned when people who say they are mediums ask such a basic spiritual question. It is not that the issue you raise is ...

smelling gas/scorching/buring -- carla -- 5 August 2011

i keep smelling gas/ scorching, come burning, but its the first time ive had this,my dad died two years ago and its his b.birthday today. also ive mised a period could this have anything to do with it

Re: smelling gas/scorching/burning -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 August 2011

Hello Carla Regarding your question about smelling burning, that you became aware of on your father's birthday: If one takes the view that once we pass into the realms of ‘Eternal Light’, loved ...

ghost all the same -- anne -- 14 August 2011

Hi when i was about 6 years old i saw 6 ghosts all looking execly the same, they just watched me then went away, what are they called

Re: ghost all the same -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 August 2011

Hello Anne There is a simple answer. If you can see clearly, these images were not ghosts, they where people from the world of light, our spiritual companions. They may appear to be the same but in ...

Does he know I'm sorry? -- Kerris -- 10 August 2011

Hello Stephen I lost my dad to a sudden unexpected death 3wks ago and I never got to say goodbye, you see we had not been in touch for the last 9yrs due to his marriage. I feel so guilty and unhappy ...

Re: Does he know I'm sorry? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 August 2011

Dear Kerris I am sorry to hear about your heart-rending situation around the passing over of your father. Often, the sad issue of guilt you write about affects people who have not been in close ...

Spiritual Orb? -- Julie -- 9 August 2011

Hi Stephen When on holidays I took the attached photo. There appears to be a large ord next ot my children and a smaller orb in the doorway. There appears to be a face in the larger orb. I do not ...

Re: Spiritual Orb? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 August 2011

Dear Julie Thank you for your question and photograph. First of all, may I point out that ‘Orbs’ is not an area where my spiritual work really gets too involved in, please let me explain? From my ...

grief healing -- Lynda -- 27 July 2011

My soul mate passed away 9 years ago, and I feel like he took most of me with him. The things I used to enjoy, everything. I miss him so much, still. I lack a life at all, and am very content with ...

Re: grief healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 July 2011

Dear Lynda It is always sad to hear of anyone who has lost the great love of their life, particularly when described as a soul mate. Time, is often spoken about with the suggestion that over a period ...

dark shadows -- Dee -- 30 June 2011

Hi, as a family we have often experienced things that we cant explain + as we believe in the spirit world we often use past family etc as an explanation to these experiences. In december my father ...

Re: dark shadows -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 July 2011

Hello Dee Thank you for your question, which is not too dissimilar to many of this kind I receive through the course of my work. However, there is a growing amount of people who allow the modern ...

My son -- Melanie -- 2 July 2011

Hi Stephen, I hope you can help me. I lost my son Sean in January this year. He took his own life and i have been finding life quite difficult ever since his passing and find it quite difficult to ...

Re: My son -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 July 2011

Hello Melanie I am sorry for the slight delay in replying to you owing to just returning from a holiday, where there was no internet connection. Nonetheless, I would like to send my sincere thoughts ...

what books to read -- michael -- 11 June 2011

hi stephen wonder if u can help me i really wanna get into mediumship, had a couple of readings now. which was helpfull, please can u tell me what books are really good to read???? i want to read a ...

Re: what books to read -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 June 2011

Hello Michael This is a type of question I regularly receive. Nonetheless, which book to read, is an individual matter, one book will suit one person and not another. Over my 30 years in this work I ...

My Olivia -- Caroline -- 11 June 2011

Dear Stephen I lost my 17 year old daughter Olivia in March this year, after she was fatally injured in a road traffic accident in Bahrain. She was in intensive care in Bahrain until February and ...

Re: My Olivia -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 June 2011

Dear Caroline First of all I would like to send my sincere thoughts to you and your family regarding the tragic loss you have recently had. I have given considerable thought to your correspondence, ...

sand reading -- nigel -- 10 June 2011

hi stephen is it allowed for a medium to use handprints in sand to do his readings in an snu church if not can you explain why not thanks you regards nige

Re: sand reading -- Stephen Wakeling -- 12 June 2011

Hello Nigel In the first instance thank you for your question. However, with your understanding of the Spiritualist National Union, I am surprised you didn’t ask this question at your local SNU ...

My dreams -- Kwabena -- 27 May 2011

My name kwabena mensah from ghana i used to dream about goddess venus and other gods please help me

Re: My dreams -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 May 2011

Hello Kwabena Thank you for your question. However, I am a little confused about your dreams. May I explain? You refer to Gods and Goddesses in particular the goddess Venus, who was a Roman Goddess ...

Clairvoyant? -- Kim -- 29 May 2011

Stephen, Although I have had experiences in the past, i have recently discovered that I am most likely clairvoyant and clairaudient. For my own sanity I need someone to tell me whether or not I am ...

Re: Clairvoyant? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 3 June 2011

Hello Kim It is really pleasing to hear from someone who has received direct communication with a loved one in the World of Light. What is also satisfying is how you explained in detail what you ...

lost partner -- tonino -- 24 May 2011

suddenly without a goodbye my long time partner has gone away to where? and when will she return back to me? I would like you to tell me please.

Re: lost partner -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 May 2011

Dear Tonino Thank you for your question. However, in the first instance, may I just clarify one small point? With such a small amount of information, I am unsure of whether you refer to your long ...

Accreditation -- Medium -- 16 May 2011

Hi I am a Medium taking my first steps towards working on the rostrum I would very much like to develop my gift further and would appreciate any information you can give me as to how I can achieve ...

Re: Accreditation -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2011

Thank you for your question. I am often asked this or very similar questions. Today, there appears to be much difficulty in finding a spiritual teacher and mentor who has the essential skills for ...

Re: Accreditation -- Medium -- 16 May 2011

Thank you so much for the information, makes sense to me that I don't need to look at accreditations, and to stop listening to others so much, go with my own gut feelings. Guess what I am really ...

i am confused about my soul -- maryam -- 8 May 2011

hello sir i am maryam at night it often happens that my soul is walking or floating in air and my fleshy body still remains in the air

Re: i am confused about my soul -- Stephen Wakeling -- 10 May 2011

Hello Maryam Thank you for your question. It would appear there is a little confusion in your question. I believe that what you are asking about is what is often described as ‘Astral Travel’. There ...

Thank you Sir -- Maryam -- 11 May 2011

Thank you sir for your satisfactory answer it helped me a lot. Almost every day or night i experience some kinds of strange things like when i look very deeply to sky i see that there is a like a ...

Healing -- Julius -- 3 May 2011

Hello, I have health problem with my heart. Do you able to healing me? Or what you can make for me in this situation? How long time I have still in this siuation? Thank you Jlius, Slovakia

Re: Healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 May 2011

Hello Julius May I say how sorry I am to hear about your health problem? Yes, I am fortunate to have the gift of spiritual healing; however, there may be a little confusion about the gift. I believe ...

I keep making the sign of the cross -- Steve -- 1 May 2011

Hi can you help me The thing is it may sound silly I know put I keep doing something and I don’t know why and it makes me think I’m strange. The thing I do is I keep making the sign of the cross and ...

Re: I keep making the sign of the cross -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 May 2011

Hello Steve This question has taken thought and a little research, so that I can give my considered reply to your question. In response, there is possibly only one of two answers to your dilemma. ...

Spiritualism -- Maria -- 1 May 2011

Dear Stephen I have been a believer in Spiritualism for many years, since I lost my first son when he was 5 days old. It is usually the case that we are drawn to the spiritual side of life when we ...

Re: Spiritualism -- Stephen Wakeling -- 5 May 2011

Dear Maria May I apologise for the slight delay in getting back to you? I have given considerable thought to your correspondence, taking the view that time was needed to ensure that I was clear in my ...

My brother -- Jane -- 30 April 2011

i have lost my brother in the past month. is he with my mum or dad

Re: My brother -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 April 2011

Dear Jane Thank you for your question. However in the first instance, may I just clarify one small point? With all questions I take the standpoint that my answers are generic, as such I take a ...

spiritual development -- zeljka -- 19 April 2011

Hello Stephen, I'm from Croatia, I am very eager to learn as much as possible about spirituality and was wondering if you could kindly recomend which books and authors is good to start with. So ...

Re: spiritual development -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 April 2011

Hello Zeljka This is an interesting question. However, reading books is an individual matter, as one book will suit one person and not another. Over my 30 years in this work I have read very little, ...

if i be blessed -- Željka -- 10 May 2011

Dear Stephen, I would like to share this song with you to honor Jack Corbett. I posted it in photobucket and this is the link (below) Please, mind I'm just an amateur.. Light and Love, Željka

Re: spiritual development -- Željka -- 30 April 2011

Thank you Stephen for answering and more. I agree now after you pointed out that it is a matter of personal preference and need what literature to begin with. After all, spirituality and etheric ...

fathers death -- Becky -- 18 April 2011

Hello, my father passed recently, he suffered from mental illness. I did not do what I could to help him, I spent most of my time aggervated with the illness, I only stopped in once in awhile. I miss ...

Re: fathers death -- Stephen Wakeling -- 21 April 2011

Hello Becky I am very sorry to hear of the sad situation in which you find yourself in at the moment. When one speaks of mental illness, unless we are professionally qualified, or have wonderful ...

Re: fathers death -- Becky -- 21 April 2011

Thank you.

soul mates -- phyllis -- 9 April 2011

helo stephen, i've been waiting to ask you this question. almost 2 years ago my husband who i love very much commited sucicide, i would like to know if he's ok he was very depressed for many ...

Re: soul mates -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 April 2011

Hello Phyllis First of all it is a pity that you have waited so long to contact anyone, it must have been a very difficult time for both you and all of your family. Personally with any tragic ...

Re: soul mates -- Phyllis -- 24 April 2011

Thank you

mediumship -- angie -- 9 April 2011

hi my name is angie i am writing to u as i have done some spiritualist but would like to learn some more i would like to go on platform and give one to one messages i live in rhyl and would like to ...

Re: mediumship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 1 May 2011

Hello Angie Thank you for your question. My initial thoughts are about your personal desire to go onto the public platform to give messages. To me the reason why anyone wishes to pick up the mantle ...

A dream interpretation. -- Maryse -- 1 April 2011

Dear Mr. Stephen Wakeling, There is a question which has been puzzling me for some time, in fact since the year 2008. In brief, to explain and describe a few elements of this dream, there was as ...

Re: A dream interpretation. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 May 2011

Hello Maryse Thank you for the question. However I am a little perplexed about what exactly you are asking me. Firstly, may I point out that my spiritual gift doesn’t really extend to dreams? ...

opening the mind -- Ian -- 3 April 2011

Hi Stephen, I've always been able to sense things ever since I was a little lad but my partner recently had her cards read and the womantold her of me being gifted and all i need to do to develop ...

Re: opening the mind -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 April 2011

Hello Ian Thank you for your question. In the first instance, may I say that everyone is gifted, each of us, in different ways. When you mention sensing things, this indicates a natural awareness of ...

Please help :) -- Sarah H -- 4 April 2011

Dear Stephen I am not sure if you can help me but I have been having experiences which I desperately need some answers to. I recently met a good friend of my husband's (along with his ...

Re: Please help :) -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 April 2011

Hello Sarah What you describe is something that is not too uncommon. In the first instance, one should try to remember that all people have a spiritual capacity. In some it manifests either as a ...

Development -- Jennie -- 6 April 2011

Hi stephen, I don't know where to start really, I have been told by another medium that I should develop my skill, however, I'm not sure where to start or how to start. I meditate regularly ...

Re: Development -- Stephen Wakeling -- 24 April 2011

Hello Jennie Thank you for your question about spiritual development. I believe there are two basic routes for you to go. Initially you may want to go to a spiritual meeting nearby to where you live. ...

Re: Development -- Jennie -- 28 April 2011

Thank you very much Stephen, I will get in touch with the people you have suggested and go from there. Thank you again. Jennie

"A spirit attached to me" -- Donna -- 23 March 2011

Hello Stephen May I introduce myself my name is Donna. I was wondering if there is any chance that you can [help] me. I have a spirit attached to me, can you tell me what to do to stop it is really ...

Re: "A spirit attached to me" -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2011

Hello Donna These days, there are an emergent number of people, like yourself, who have a similar problem to the one you describe. Over the last few years, there has been a growing indulgence in ...

lost someone -- Miss Taylor -- 20 March 2011

My son's father committed suicide 8 years ago, I've allways blamed my self I cannot be at peace, please help me. He tried to commit sucicide before I met him also, I don't know why ...

Re: lost someone -- Stephen Wakeling -- 23 March 2011

Hello Donna, The tragic loss of anyone, particularly a close friend, family member or loved one through suicide is heart wrenching and devastating. For any person, to be at such an unhappy period, is ...

Podcast "Spirituality or Religion?", Produced by JonnyMGreen -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

First in a new interview based Podcast series featuring Spiritual Medium Stephen Wakeling. This one covers the subject of Spirituality vs Religon. Produced by JonnyMGreen For more information visit ...

Re: Podcast "Spirituality or Religion?", Produced by JonnyMGreen -- Cathy -- 14 March 2011

I loved listening to your podcast. Before I forget, yes please do talk about "ghosts." It's very insulting to us and I'm sure our loved ones in spirit, to have them mocked as Hollywood ghosts ...

Where to start? -- Lisa -- 6 March 2011

Hello Stephen I have just been to your website and found it really interesting. I am after a little bit of advice really, I understand your very busy but just thought I would contact you to share my ...

Re: Where to start? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 6 March 2011

Hello Lisa, May I first of all say that I am sorry for my very late reply. I am always snowed under with e-mail. But last week I had a bout of migraine followed by food poisoning, which has really ...

my mother who passed march 20th 2008 at 4:15 how is she -- Janet -- 5 March 2011

my mother passed march 20th march 20th 2008 at 4:15. Is she ok and around me?

Re: my mother who passed march 20th 2008 at 4:15 how is she -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

Hello Janet, The question you ask is a very normal one for many people who are seeking to come to terms with a tragic loss of a loved one. However may I say how sorry I am to hear about your very sad ...

Be a medium - Help -- Hussein -- 5 March 2011

Hello dear Medium! I'm sending this mail from Iran.I'm a boy and I love spiritual subjects, I also read many books about this subject. I have 2 questions: 1. What's the best way to ...

Re: Be a medium - Help -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

Salam Kaifa Haloka, Greeting my friend. I am taking the liberty of addressing you in Arabic, owing to the fact that you are from Iran. First of all I find it most interesting that you are seeking ...

Are our future spouses predestined? -- Cathy -- 4 March 2011

Hi Stephen, In your opinion/experience over the years, is our future marriage partner predetermined? Can bad timing and temporary obstacles affect the outcome or just delay it some? I feel I have ...

Re: Are our future spouses predestined? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 11 March 2011

Hello Cathy, Thank you for your question. In the first instance, I can only give my personal views on your request. Nonetheless, I am more of the thinking of a ‘fatalist’, which means I am someone ...

Re: Are our future spouses predestined? -- Cathy -- 14 March 2011

Thank you so very much for your very thoughful reply. I really loved the example you used, of you and your wife! What a wonderful love story! :) When you know, you instantly just know. I feel the ...

In their heads -- SMR -- 24 February 2011

I am told often to "get out of my head." Just this evening I text my sister, who lives in another state, if she's pregnant. She and her husband have been kind of trying for almost a year. Today ...

Re: In their heads -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 February 2011

Hello SMR, I have read with interest your account of sensing various situations. If I understand what you are saying, you are indicating that most of the time the thoughts you pick up come true? The ...

Message from Spirit or My Imagination? -- MA -- 20 February 2011

Hello Stephen At the moment I am at present doing mediumship development classes at a Spiritualist Centre in B, England. Can I ask you a question about the messages I get in my head? When I am in ...

Re: Message from Spirit or My Imagination? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 20 February 2011

Hello Marie Regarding you spiritual question, my initial thoughts are that if you are in a Development Group, you already have a teacher/mentor. The problem is that I am not your teacher, so I can ...

HELP- Passing away of my husband -- Buna -- 14 February 2011

Hi, My husband passed away last year in a couple of months it will be one year. How do I find out what was his purpose in this world? And (his purpose )it's connection to me? He only complained ...

Re: HELP- Passing away of my husband -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 February 2011

Dear Buna, First of all, may I say how sorry I am to hear of your very sad loss? I always feel that the first calendar year of a passing of any kind is the most difficult. No matter what any person ...

golden keys -- nikki -- 13 February 2011

my friend who likes to go to the spiritualist church was asked by the spirit medium there if she was willing to accept the golden keys she said yes but is unsure what this means. can you help please ?

Re: golden keys -- Stephen Wakeling -- 19 February 2011

Hi Nikki, Further to your question about the “Golden Keys”: I have been conducting the work of a spiritual medium for over 30 years, and must confess that I have never heard this term. There may of ...

passing of loved one -- stephanie -- 3 February 2011

hello! the love of my life passed on nov. 1, 2009 ive know him since i was 14 years old. i am 48 now. i have 2 kids with him. i was wanting to know if he was at peace and who he is with?? thank you!

Re: passing of loved one -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 February 2011

Hello Stephanie, In the first instance may I say how sorry I am to hear about your very sad loss? It is particularly difficult when there has been a long and sustained bond of love between two ...

What's life like after death? -- George -- 30 January 2011

Dear Stephen My questions may seem rather antagonistic but I can assure you that I have thought about them and I am not trying to be controversial. Spiritualists claim they are able to speak to dead. ...

Re: What's life like after death? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 February 2011

Hello George First of all, sorry for the late reply, but I have been on a holiday with my grandson and unfortunately there was no internet access, hence the delay. Generally, I only usually have one, ...

elvis presley whats he thinking -- jean -- 19 January 2011

Re: elvis presley whats he thinking -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 January 2011

Hello This is an interesting question. Why? It is simple, anyone who is a genuine spiritual medium will tell you that we do not read minds. Some people feel we can, but the truth is we cannot! Our ...

my life -- cathy -- 22 January 2011

hi stephen can you tell me if my stepson is around my daughter she feels that he is. also will there be happiness for her in the future? thanks cathy

Re: my life -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 January 2011

Hello Cathy First of all may I say I am sorry to hear of your sad loss? I would like to point out that no matter how much mediums or others may say, there will always be the pain of losing a child. I ...

wedding -- morag -- 15 January 2011

hi stephen, i am planing my wedding and i would like spiritual wedding in july this yaer, but i am having difficalty finding a spiritual medium how is legale aball it do the seromeny, can you help me ...

Re: wedding -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 January 2011

Hi Morag, I am sorry for a slight delay in getting back to you. But I had to check out a few facts. I am taking the assumption you reside in the United Kingdom. I have asked a friend of mine who is a ...

I am lost... -- Angelina -- 7 January 2011

Stephen, I came across this website and thought maybe it was for a reason? I really believe that everything happens for a reason. Ever since I can remember I have always seen ghosts/spirits and felt ...

Re: I am lost... -- Stephen Wakeling -- 10 January 2011

Hello Angelina, Many thanks for contacting me. You mention initially that things happen for a reason – like you I also believe this. There are a few questions to answer. But all seem to point in one ...

Where is he? -- Cholena -- 19 December 2010

Hi Stephen, I came to ask you about my grandfather, he passed on my sisters birthday back in 2004. Ever since then my life has turned upside down, in and out of psychiatric hospitals and whatnot. I ...

Re: Where is he? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 December 2010

Hello, First of all, may I say that I am very sorry to hear about your difficult problem of ‘closure’, which is something that many people have trouble with. There is no hard and fast rule to ...

Letter to Norman Bomar, Escondido CA - Follow up to my trip to California (Sept - Oct 2010) -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2010

Mr. Norman Bomar Sales Executive Quality Chevrolet of Escondido 1550 Auto Park Way Escondido California 920290 United States of America 1st December 2010 Reference: Top Quality Customer Service Hi ...

pet spirits and souls -- Mary Beth -- 2 December 2010

Hello, I believe in the after life and also that our loved ones can and do stay connected to us on this plain. I recently had to put my beloved black lab retriever to eternal rest. I am struggling ...

Re: pet spirits and souls -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2010

Hello Mary Beth, The love one keeps and holds for a pet can often be far greater, because of the interaction we have with the animal world. Like you, I have seen my family pets leave this world. If ...

Intense Experience -- K -- 1 December 2010

Hi Stephen, Please can you help me to understand what happened to me in the circle. I have been going to the spiritual church development class for 5 months and prior to this (in class) have seen ...

Re: Intense Experience -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 December 2010

Hello K, Following your question I have deliberately taken time to answer. Owing to the fact that there appears top be a series of answers, you are looking for. However, initially I would suggest ...

my mother -- edith -- 31 October 2010

I wish to reach my deceased mother.

Re: my mother -- Stephen Wakeling -- 15 November 2010

Thank you for your question, Edith. First of all may I draw your attention to one simple fact that it is those in the ‘World of Light’ who contact us here in Earth, and not the other way around? ...

Spiritual Work in California (Part 1): El Segundo, Escondido and Gardena -- Stephen Wakeling -- 30 October 2010

California is vibrant, warm, exciting and unique. Nothing is more evident with its diverse acceptance of life than within its spiritual understanding, which presents openness, a key to opportunity ...

Spiritual Work in California (Part 2): California, a Spiritual Doorway - Feedbacks from the 3 events -- Stephen Wakeling -- 27 October 2010

Throughout our physical life, we all have hopes, desire and aspirations. In our earthly quest, we occasionally hit a closed or blocked door. Often, in our desire to move forward, we push and push at ...

Spiritual Work in California (Part 3): More photos of Stephen's trip to America -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 October 2010

The Pacific Ocean Steve on the Pier of Venice Beach Steve and his wife Linda Steve and Linda in the garden of the First United Spiritualist Church of Gardena, California Steve at the First ...

death case -- carla -- 24 October 2010

I'm looking for someone to help me probono with a death case ...can anyoneone help me please??????????????? Thanks Carla

Re: death case -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 October 2010

Hello Carla I have given this question a lot of thought; sadly it is not an area where I personally do my spiritual work. From you question I understand that you are looking for a psychic detective. ...

I see spirit & spirit light -- gina and ian -- 26 October 2010

hi Stephen, For the last two years or so I have seen spirit. It all started at home with the lamps going on & off, also the time on the clock would change and within days go back to the correct time. ...

Re: I see spirit & spirit light -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 October 2010

Hello Gina, I read with interest you growing awareness of spiritual matters. Some people believe we see spirit, but I much prefer my spiritual teacher’s observation, in that we only see the ‘form of ...

reply to your answer -- gina -- 15 November 2010

thank you so very much for a rapid response to my questions, its wonderful to get positive answers from someone as popular as yourself. I have seen you a couple of times at portobello s church & was ...

glowing shadows -- sonya -- 13 October 2010

Helo steven.. I keep seeing a glowing shadow around some psychic's when i vist my local church, sometime it gets bigger and darker . At first when i saw it i thought it was me being tied but the ...

Re: glowing shadows -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 October 2010

Hello Sonya Thank you. This is a very interesting question. The reference to seeing a glow around the medium, at a local church, shows your ability to see the movement of spiritual energy around the ...

spirit world -- julie -- 11 October 2010

hi my name is julie i lost my dad suddenley on 10th november 2004 i cant get over his death i find each day hard i love him so much and i miss him he died in a horrible way and most of been in loads ...

Re: spirit world -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 October 2010

Hello Julie I am really sorry to hear of your sad news about your father. It is very difficult to get over any loss, but with tragic circumstances, the sorrow can often last for a greater length of ...

mediumship -- Belinda -- 10 October 2010

Hi there Stephen, I have been struggling to find a site like this. I started my spiritual journey a year ago, i never knew that i was going through it at the time until i explained it to a woman that ...

Re: mediumship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 October 2010

Hello Belinda My apologies for my late reply but I have been away in California, and just returned to England. First of all, you mention your spiritual journey and at the point where you feel it ...

career -- Silvana -- 28 September 2010

Hi, there just came across this site, while looking for work. I just finished a Spiiritual Psychotherapy and Director Program at a colledge for one full year.I did case studies at a church, but know ...

Re: career -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 October 2010

Hello Silvana Thank you for your question. My initial thought is whether you are asking a spiritual or material question, are you seeking material or spiritual guidance. Therefore, owing to my ...

i feel stuck -- christine -- 12 September 2010

Hi Stephen, My name is Christine, i am a Spiritual loving person, lately i have been feeling stuck, i do Reiki, and sekhem energy healing as well as massage. I only receive a disability pension and ...

Re: i feel stuck -- Stephen Wakeling -- 13 September 2010

Hello Christine, I read with interest your appreciation of spiritual matters and you various interests in different aspects and concepts of healing. I am sorry to hear about your disability and your ...

Looking for controlled studies on outcome-based studies on parapsychological phenomena -- Ed -- 7 September 2010

I am an agnostic. I have done extensive reserch in the arena of parapsychology because I have a vested interest in finding out whether consciousness continues after death. I am looking for controlled ...

Re: Looking for controlled studies on outcome-based studies on parapsychological phenomena -- Stephen Wakeling -- 9 September 2010

Hello Ed, I find this an unusual question in that there is only one definitive answer, which is the one you personally want. Some who seek the continuity of life after physical death are totally ...

orbs -- nicholas -- 30 August 2010

can you tell me if my mom has someone doing bad to her and when she was little she seen orbs all around her, what is happening to my mom she seems like she is having a nervous breakdown or someone is ...

Re: orbs -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 September 2010

Hello Nicholas, Initially I feel there is lot of confusion around you and some misunderstanding about spiritual matters. There are a lot of views on orbs and what it means when one sees them. First ...

mum -- marymcinulty -- 26 August 2010

hi there iwas wondering is it really true that the soul leaves your body about 4 weeks before you pass ,the reason i am asking is my mum has lung cancer now for 2 and half years radiotherapy was ...

Re: mum -- Stephen Wakeling -- 8 September 2010

Hello Mary, First of all, may I extend to you at this very sad and difficult time my sincere thoughts and prayers. It is a harrowing time when one are faced with seeing a loved one, where the pain ...

Spirit Guides, Angels etc. -- Rita -- 14 August 2010

Mr. Wakeling, How do i find out more about who are my spirit guide/s and angel/s? I did get an answer once (in my mind) who my spirit guide is, but how do i really know if that is true or just my ...

Re: Spirit Guides, Angels etc. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 August 2010

Hello Rita This is an interesting question, one that happens once a person has started to open up their spiritual faculties. However, in the first instance may I dwell upon the words Spirit Guide? ...

clairvoyance -- lena -- 13 August 2010

Dear Stephen, I have been reading your blog and my question is.. How does one know if they are gifted or like you said "just wish to be". I have studied, been to Stanstead and frequently told I was ...

Re: clairvoyance -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 August 2010

Dear Lena, Regarding your interest on spiritual matters, the first thing and an important one, is that we are all gifted in one way or another, the difference is the capacity we each possess. I would ...

Re: clairvoyance -- lena -- 19 August 2010

Dear Stephen, Thank you so much for your very honest answer.. One that seems to me to be the answer I was looking for to explain much that I have seen, heard and learnt..Empathy is my gift, one that ...

Trance Mediumship -- malcolm -- 17 May 2010

Hi my question is regarding "Trance Medumship". I have been a working medium for the last 47 years. I am now and have been for some time past very interested in becoming a ( Trance Medium ) I live in ...

Re: Trance Mediumship -- Stephen Wakeling -- 24 May 2010

Hello Malcolm, Thank you for your question about Trance Mediumship. I am a little surprised that with the years of mediumship you mention, this subject has not brought you your own conclusions. ...

High sence of intuition. -- Prad -- 11 May 2010

Dear Stephen, For a long time I knew there was something different about my thoughts and sensitivities. In 2005 I lost my father which was unexpected. Two days before his passing I told him off for ...

Re: High sence of intuition. -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2010

Thanks for your question, one that is a direct reference to your intuitive nature and spiritual capacity. Your reference to the squabble is not unusual, we all say things that later give us regret, ...

auric attacks -- anthony -- 11 May 2010

Dear Stephen, I have had a attachment problem very bad its ade my life rotten, it locks into aura no matter how much healing i have it i assume 'steal' healing energy as I am constantly ...

Re: auric attacks -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2010

Hi Antony many thanks for question. I am somewhat confused by your question, but very much sympathise with your situation. In the first instance I would take the assumption that someone who has ...

Suffering, why? -- Tricia -- 9 May 2010

This is something that my mother and myself have often discussed and have no clear cut answers. Why, when it's time for that person to pass on, the build up towards it can be full of suffering ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 May 2010

Hello Tricia This is a question I hear quite often and a situation all of us encounter during you physical lives. First of all, one may look at the fact that the physical body has only a period of ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Tricia -- 18 May 2010

Thank you very much for your reply Stephen. It is said that when it's our time to pass, it will happen but what about those people who have health issues to the point that they will never get ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 28 May 2010

Hello again Tricia Thanks for your question. You mention the problems relating to the quality of life and many health issues people experience prior to their passing from this life into the realms of ...

Re: Suffering, why? -- Tricia -- 2 June 2010

Hello Stephen You must be a pretty busy person and thank you again for taking the time to read and reply to my last question. As you say, we can not have all the answers, I can understand this. Life, ...

strange feeling when healing -- annette -- 28 April 2010

Ive not had healing for some year ,but over couple day i have seen a image on a pic a had taken sometime ago . which scared me some so i tuck it to my healer she said not to worrid its my angel so i ...

Re: strange feeling when healing -- Stephen Wakeling -- 4 May 2010

Regarding your question, I have taken time to think; please find my thoughts: But, first of all may I say that though I have over 30 years of experience in spiritual matters, I am not the panacea of ...

Messages from the 'other-side' -- Janet -- 25 March 2010

Hi Stephen, I hope you don't mind me asking you this question but, I have often wondered when mediums give messages to people from the 'other-side' how does a medium know if that ...

Re: Messages from the 'other-side' -- Stephen Wakeling -- 29 March 2010

Hello Janet, Regarding your question, the cause of much confusion is that there are many people who think, or wish, they have the capacity to be Spiritual Mediums. With this in mind, one also has to ...

Thank you... -- Janet -- 30 March 2010

Hi Stephen, Thank you so much for your reply......which has helped me understand a lot more now. But, I must tell you that about half an hour ago I was emailing to a friend of mine when a very loud ...

Re: Thank you... -- Stephen Wakeling -- 6 April 2010

Hello Janet In the first instance you mention a ‘bang’. It could be a normal occurrence, yet it could be someone in the World of Light who wants to draw your attention. Simply just letting know that ...

Why am i loosing everything? *NM* -- Anita -- 12 March 2010

Re: Why am i loosing everything? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 March 2010

Unfortunately there is not enough information to be precise. However, taking a restricted view, that the situation could be one of many perhaps a medical, material or spiritual one. If it is a ...

Spirit message vs. imagination -- Myra -- 19 March 2010

Hi Stephen, I saw your amazing mediumship at Portobello, Edinburgh, once. My question is, although I have had spiritual experiences all my life and have done hundreds of personal mediumship readings, ...

Re: Spirit message vs. imagination -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 March 2010

May I say thank you for your very kind words about my evening of Clairvoyance at Portobello Spiritualist Church in the great City of Edinburgh, Scotland. Regarding your question, you mention the most ...

communicating with spirits -- Carla -- 14 March 2010

How do I find someone who can tell me about family members that have passed-on ? Can you help me ?

Re: communicating with spirits -- Stephen Wakeling -- 22 March 2010

This is a question that I am asked more, and more and more these days. Why? The reason is simple, because there are many people who are not truly gifted for the work of spiritual mediumship, but wish ...

Dream or Reality? -- Anna -- 16 February 2010

Hello, my name is Anna, can I ask you about an experience of mine. I was lying half asleep, but very aware. There was a young man in his mid 40s and he took my hand. He spoke to me about my life and ...

Re: Dream or Reality? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 16 February 2010

Hello Anna, Many thanks for your message. I often have questions which take time to answer, but with this one, there is a simplicity that is reflective of the purity of spiritual contact and ...

mental health -- june -- 19 January 2010

hi stephen i suffer with depression and at times i have bad patches, when i find life hard to cope with. i also have a very low self asteme. i did try healing before and felt great for a while,but ...

Re: mental health -- Stephen Wakeling -- 26 January 2010

When I get spiritual questions I often have to wait a little time for guidance, information or inspiration. However, with this question my answer was almost immediate. Nonetheless, let us take a step ...

Feedback about arrival in the Spirit World -- Anna -- 17 December 2009

Every year before Christmas, the following question returns to my mind with insistence: Devoted Christians pass to the Spirit World believing that Jesus is God, that beside the Trinity there are no ...

Re: Feedback about arrival in the Spirit World -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 December 2009

The question you ask is not too dissimilar to many others requested by people of different faiths, or beliefs. However, there are more answers to the question, because of its complexities and your ...

learning -- skye -- 17 December 2009

I would like to contact my grandson chad who hung himself at only 27..... his mother is in depression full of if onlys.. I also would love to work as a medium but where can i go to learn? where do i ...

Re: learning -- Stephen Wakeling -- 31 December 2009

I have given considerable thought to the question you ask. In the first instance, one has always to remember that we, at this point in time, reside in this the World of Earth, and do not have the ...

reunions -- alan -- 11 November 2009

Hello Stephen, I do hope my question doesn't with seem frivolous. Upon reunion with our loved ones, is there a certain shyness and akwardness the way there is here after a long seperation. Or do ...

Re: reunions -- Stephen Wakeling -- 15 November 2009

In the first instance any question with reference to spiritual understanding is important. Why? Because any answer that gives any form of peace is worth asking. Many questions can attract some ...

2012 -- More than just curious -- 26 October 2009

Stephen: What are your thoughts about 2012? Have you ever asked Spirit about it? Do you expect major physical changes to the Earth (earthquakes, etc)? How about the specific date the change is ...

Re: 2012 -- Stephen Wakeling -- 1 November 2009

The question with reference to 2012 and the expectation of major physical changes to the Earth, is one that is on many people’s minds. However, before answering I would first like to establish the ...

The Time for Remembrance and the Red Poppy -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 October 2009

Remembrance and the Red Poppy Ingrained upon the mind and conscience of mankind is the pain, grief and anguish of war. The ultimate conflict, one against another, has been written about through the ...

My dog -- Nina -- 16 October 2009

Recently I had to put my beloved dog to sleep due to his severe pain and suffering that could not be alleviated with medical treatment. I can't seem to get over this trauma and want to know if he ...

Re: My dog -- Stephen Wakeling -- 18 October 2009

Hello. The love one keeps and holds for a pet is often greater, because of the interaction we have with the animal world. Like you I have seen my family pets leave this world. If you realise that all ...

9 year old child - Possession? -- Donna (Los Angeles, CA) -- 7 October 2009

Dear Stephen I am contacting you about my grandson Kyle he is nearly nine years old. He is very hyperactive and my daughter is constantly looking out for the e-numbers and checking what he eats. It ...

Re: 9 year old child - Possession? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 October 2009

Hello, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. But I have a back log of e-mail from around the world and have to use a system, so as not to miss anyone. Anyway, reference your grandson. In ...

Almost empty Spiritualist churches -- Scratching my head -- 6 October 2009

With all the popularity that paranormal programs get on TV, and the popularity of New Age beliefs in general, why are there not more young people in Spiritualist churches? Why don't they come to ...

Re: Almost empty Spiritualist churches -- Stephen Wakeling -- 7 October 2009

Almost empty Spiritualist Churches In response to your question regarding almost empty Spiritualist Churches. Without doubt there is a growing influence on television, radio and theatres concerning ...

Negative energy -- Peter -- 25 September 2009

Do you believe in negative energy? The reason I ask is that it was brought to my attention that there is a lot of this negative force where I work. I believe that there may be negative people and ...

Re: Negative energy -- Stephen Wakeling -- 25 September 2009

Hello Peter I personally don't believe in negative energy. I believe that there is a natural flow of energy, which runs through all things, and this is divine in nature. It only misguided people ...

Spiritualism and Church of Scotland: Do the departed ones go to Heaven before the Final Day? -- Vicky -- 14 September 2009

Good Afternoon Stephen, I have been reading your website with interest and I wondered if you could possibly help me with a religious problem which is troubling me. I was brought up by parents who ...

Re: Spiritualism and Church of Scotland: Do the departed ones go to Heaven before the Final Day? -- Stephen Wakeling -- 14 September 2009

Hi Vicki Many thanks for your e-mail. There are a few questions. I will try to answer them within my spiritual capacity. All religions and even those who are none-believers, have a pathway on which ...

Who I am -- Stephen Wakeling -- 6 September 2009

I have been a Spiritualist Medium for nearly 30 years; this work has combined with my life skills within training and management consultancy. The greatest thing about my life is that I have lived, ...